Originally posted by Pac_Man
LoL what's funny about this girl (who is a white blond girl btw) is that she always tells me that out of all the guys that she's been she feels safest with me but you know what you're right being a nice guy, it's programmed in my brain I cannot in the life of me help it.
I have no brothers, I have 4 sisters, I'm the only boy and youngest at that. My sisters pretty much raised me, my dad doesn't really say much or we don't get along so much but I get along better with my mom.
I had to honestly compensate by joining football in high school and becoming a powerlifter and eventually a bodybuilder. I'm not huge but I'm about 5'10 190 pounds but because my waist is so small (29 inches) I look like a huge dude. My size is just a front for me and at first impression when people see me they think I'm an arrogant a$$hole but when they talk to me they are surprised at how nice I am.
What do you think about a white blond girl with an asian man??Honestly I'm also insecure about something like this. Like I always sometimes think I'm not good enough for her and I don't understand why she even calls me considering her past b/f have been white guys, blond hair, blue eyes type and here's me, an asian guy.
But seriously I'm afraid to MAN UP because I feel I already exude that aura and I might scare people even more but it's just when people interact with me they change their attitudes.
Jesus Christ. What on earth is THIS? You're 190 pounds of solid PU$$Y.
Come on, now....
Seriously bro, you sound like a good catch to me. You're in good shape, you can hold your own against threats, you're a considerate gentle guy within the context of an LTR... you're golden.
It also sounds like you've never been with a non-Asian girl before. IT'S ALL IN YOUR HEAD. Most whitegirls will give a non-white guy a fighting chance, as long as he measures up to her standards. We don't live in the Jim Crow era Deep South anymore - interracial dating is COMMON, and very well tolerated, overall. I see white girls with all races of men - black, Latin, white, and lately - more and more Asian men. It's all good - whiteboys have been mounting yellow chicks since the days of yester-year - now they get to sit back and watch tha Asian men mount the whitegirls.
And you keep yapping about how you're "afraid" of hurting her (emotionall or physically) since you're so strong and intimidating. That's CRAP. Whitegirls are *notorious* for being able to take the most abuse. I'm
dead serious! Have you seen the way some white guys treat their women? It's astounding! Or the way that some black guys treat white girls like dogs or sexual conquests that totally negate their humanity? I know for a fact that most Asian girls (except self-haters with no self-respect) would NEVER tolerate this - but
whitegirls have a much higher tolerance for abuse! This is an unspoken rule amongst non-white guys that have experienced white girls - we can usually get away with more than we could have within our ethnic groups. Just ask any black, Asian or Latino who has been with a whitegirl. You need to realize that your whitegirl is probably a lot hardier than you think - she's probably taken a helluva lot of crap from her white exes, and what you can throw at her pales in comparison. So stop being such a paranoid moron. Just do it.
Ideally what you have to do though, is
fvck her ASAP. I might sound like I'm morphing into our resident Asian PUA 'JT 93451', but it is imperative that you give this girl a sexual mindframe thru which she sees you. The only way to do that is to get sexual with her. At least get her naked and give each other head. If you don't, you will soon become a 'dyck in a glass jar' to her.