“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I breached the friendzone, now what?

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Theres this girl that I have been friends with for a long time. We have always been very flirty with each other and sexual tension has always been present. I always thought that i was stuck in the friendzone with her though because it never went past casual flirting and she always had other guys. Last night we were at her place watching a movie. I was playfully teasing her and flirting like I always do with her and she jumped on me and started play fighting with me. Well that led to kissing which ulitimatley led to sex.

She is very attractive physically and I guess you can say that I got a taste of the "forbidden fruit" of a friend. My problem now is that I don't know where to go with this. She is the kind of girl that I would date, but I really don't want a girlfriend right now. I didn't see her today because we both had to work but we texted a little bit and I just acted like things haven't changed she acted the same. I know in her mind though things are not the same and she is wondering how i feel about the whole situation. She has been wanting a boyfriend for a while now and I think that by having sex with someone she is close to and trusts alot(that would be me)would push her towards trying to become exclusive with me, but I don't want a girlfriend but I know in her mind she will think I just used her for sex. I think I really f*cked up because I could possible lose a really good friend because of this.

So how do I handle this?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Well, as I said we were hanging out and there has always been sexual tension between us and things just happened. She is also a HB8 and it was just hard not to give in to my physical impulses.
 
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dont worry u both are human just act normal ur not in the friendzone ur in the f-buddy zone just go with it and let her kno you want to kep things as they are for now
 
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I'm curious as to how you got to be a "friend" to begin with ;)

I'm never "friends" with women.. it's like having a job that doesn't pay.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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She was friends with a girl that I was dating a few years ago and we just became good friends and we stayed friends after me and my gf broke up.
 
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I call b*llsh*t on this whole story. The girl finally f*cks the guy was who was in the back watching all frustrated like? Girls don't just all the sudden let loose like that. Even so, why are you asking people on here what to do?
 
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OFWHAP said:
I call b*llsh*t on this whole story. The girl finally f*cks the guy was who was in the back watching all frustrated like? Girls don't just all the sudden let loose like that. Even so, why are you asking people on here what to do?
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I don't think the OP was all "frustrated in the back" (whatever the fvck that means...), he said himself they were always flirty and had sexual tension. I've had that with some friends myself . Just because you're friends with a girl doesn't mean you're a clueless AFC.

To the OP, obviously she liked what you were doing enough in this friendship to become sexually attracted to you. If she pushes for a relationship, just ignore it. You will not lose a friend for fvcking her. It might be awkward for awhile, but eventually things will go back to normal and you might be able to nail her as a friend with benefits. Just don't change your behavior to a wussy AFC or she'll lose respect for you and THEN the friendship will most likely be damaged.
 
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