I banged my friend's wife

[shop until I die!]

thats what i thought about someone sleeping with their friend's wife while he is out of town.

I see your point and for the most part agree. I don't view this as one of my finer moments.

 

[Bvbidd]

She was being the wh0re, not him.

 

[shop until I die!]

She was being the wh0re, not him.

Thanks man. I appreciate it. It's a tough time right now and the last thing I need is people telling me what I did was wrong, because I know it was wrong.
I just need help on what to do now.

 

[nakedtwister]

Thanks man. I appreciate it. It's a tough time right now and the last thing I need is people telling me what I did was wrong, because I know it was wrong.
I just need help on what to do now.

I would tell him. It will be better for you in the long run. Hopefully he will see the bigger picture. But if he doesn't, forget him and just forget that you ever met these people (unless that ***** wants another spanking, then thats your choice). As bad as it sounds, its best to get away from these kinds of problems. Even if you were part of the start of it.

 

[Effington]

Uhh, don't tell the friend, buddy. That is just bad news.

 

[Bvbidd]

It's best if you tell him. Keeping it secret is lame, he'll have no idea.

 

[ricorico]

She was being the wh0re, not him.

I completely agree. I know a guy who targets hot girls who have goofy husbands and boyfriends. he says they're the easiest girls to bag because they are *****s. they marry the guy for what he could do for them financially, but look elsewhere for sex because the goofball does'nt turn them on sexually.

He was seeing this totally hot Russian wife of a real goober. The girl even let him take pics of her and him in every position. What kind of ***** is that? He could have easily sent them to her husband. What was she thinking? She and her husband even bought a new bigger house so she's not even thinking of leaving.I used to think he was in the wrong, but realized he is not the married one.

If I ended up marrying a ***** who cared more about my position and what I can provide financially then being faithful I would shake the hand of the guy who exposed the ***** if I ever found out.

STYD, do not say anything to the husband. She is prone to cheating anyway. She'll get caught one day. No need to be the messenger!
Funny thing is she's probably a cold fish in bed with her husband. What some guys will put up with just to marry a HB and have arm candy.

 

[Grand Wizzard Alamar]

I think the husband should know that his wife cheats on him... and what a b!tch, she doesn't even deserve this Tim guy... marrying someone then breaking vows... somebodys going to get raped by the devil after they die...

 

[TonyWongButOhSoRite]

Are you an idiot? Do you have any control over that thing you call a penis? Serioulsy man you're a dummy. I mean Id say something if it was you're mans girlfriend but his wife! Come on man, You're a tit. Tell him what you did cause its unfair on him to know he's married to a skank who would sleep with some guy who would use ''shop until I die'' as a username on a site for real men. Anyways stuff like this always comes out in the end and it would be better now if you told him then in a few months time or something when the wife says it and he realise's you've just played him for an even bigger dummy than what you already have. Plus you're just gonna worry about it yourself till it does come out. Post up the damge caused when he finds out will ya. Sould be funny.

 

[BlackJackal]

Another one bites the dust.

 

[wayword]

And let me say this, she is rediculously hot. Blonde, crystal blue eyes, 5'11", 120 pounds, and for 120 pounds she has a huge rack and great behind. A knockout.

she was curious to say what I looked like naked because one of my ex's is her good friend and she heard that I had a big ****. And I asked why she cared since she is married and she said that tim wasn't very big and she was just curious.

My friend comes home in a few days and I don't know what to do, she said she wont tell him and now I'm getting these texts from her like "again tonight?" and "it hurt and I loved it."

And the morals of this uplifting fairytale ARE:

1. Some girls care more about size than others. And it's generally the hot "self-entitled" ones who feel they "deserve" a bigger "package." So, you want a HOT chick - you generally better be packin' some meat. Only those (less attractive girls) who feel they have less choice "don't care."
2. Who needs "Game" or artifical "alpha" status when you got a big dik and referrals?
3. Don't trust women and don't marry. Or if you do, just realize you are taking some HUGE risks...!

 

[fresh_to_death]

This was the post that brought me out of lurking status, because I have a similar situation unfolding with my good friend and his girlfriend of 6 years. She is at the point where she is trying to get physical with me when he is not in the room or looking. I want to say something now, but I don't want to cause a scene for no good reason. The minute she escalates I'm just going to stiff arm her and tell him what's up.

Tell your friend. No other way out. Don't back down and disappear, that's some unbelievably weak ****. He's probably going to want to fight you, that's just life.

 

[ricorico]

And the morals of this uplifting fairytale ARE:

1. Some girls care more about size than others. And it's generally the hot "self-entitled" ones who feel they "deserve" a bigger "package." So, you want a HOT chick - you generally better be packin' some meat. Only those (less attractive girls) who feel they have less choice "don't care."
2. Who needs "Game" or artifical "alpha" status when you got a big dik and referrals?
3. Don't trust women and don't marry. Or if you do, just realize you are taking some HUGE risks...!

That was hysterical!!Big **** and referrals are so true. Lots of guys get laid because of that very fact! Then the *****s go back to their "boyfriends" who they usually are giving the frigid treatment too after they are sure they have him under their thumb.

Too many guys put up with attention *****s who really are just settling for them. I'd rather have a cute girl who really has the hots for me then a hot girl who is settling and not really sexually into me at all. Girls who settle always cheat eventually.

 

[penkitten]

well the fact is that you can not take it back, so you have to move forward.

do you risk telling your friend so that the truth is out there, for him to decide on what he is going to do with his marriage?
OR
do you stay quiet and pretend that it didn't happen for respect of your friendship that would be broken if you spoke up?

then put yourself in tim's shoes and ask what tim would do (WWTD ) if you went out of town and left your beautiful wife at home and she put him in that position... would he sleep with your wife? would he tell you about it? what would you do once you found out? would you react differently if you found out from her or from him or from someone else that happens to mention it?

when your friend comes home and takes his wife to their bedroom and she welcomes him home, and he smells another guy's scent that is lingering on his wife..... would he be too dumb to notice or would he immediately get irate?

 

[Being_the_Don]

Something about this thread doesn't seem right. If you're such an AFC how could she want you as a "real man"? Her husband would have to be more AFC than you. And having so much energy to bang her again and again? I'm not discounting libido, when a woman turns us on we get really turned on. But that story reads like a wet dream or something out of a porno mag. It seems to me that you want us to respond. Why else would you start with what you think the rest of us would think of you? And if perchance this is true, what goes around comes around. If her husband does find out and is the jealous type you could be in a lot of danger. :trouble: Guys who screw other guys wives are losers and if it's with a "friend's" wife it makes them a chump. :kick: But this seems like a troll thread to me, though.

 

[iqqi]

Tell your friend. No other way out. Don't back down and disappear, that's some unbelievably weak ****.

I agree. You should write a letter, since it might be too hard to say face to face. Atleast respect him enough as a man to come clean about his ***** wife, don't let him just be a fool if he doesn't deserve that.

In a way what happened is maybe good, because this Tim guy can shed his vampiric ***** wife if he so chooses, or keep her but treat her like the ***** she is, and not some kind of queen.

If you keep quiet, you are really weak, you must atone!

 

[Mental]

Are you an idiot? Do you have any control over that thing you call a penis? Serioulsy man you're a dummy. I mean Id say something if it was you're mans girlfriend but his wife! Come on man, You're a tit. Tell him what you did cause its unfair on him to know he's married to a skank who would sleep with some guy who would use ''shop until I die'' as a username on a site for real men. Anyways stuff like this always comes out in the end and it would be better now if you told him then in a few months time or something when the wife says it and he realise's you've just played him for an even bigger dummy than what you already have. Plus you're just gonna worry about it yourself till it does come out. Post up the damge caused when he finds out will ya. Sould be funny.

Tony's got a point, man. If I believed this story, which I'm skeptical about, then my advice is to tell him. Don't blame her. Own up to it. You screwed up BIG time. No "little mistake." You messed up. Best you can do is admit it, get it all in the open.

Personally, I hope he isn't buff or into guns, cause you'll have a problem just in him not trying to kill you.

I know it's hard not to be tempted (my exes knew how to turn me on), but I still had some willpower man. If I'm treated badly, (and trust me, I wouldn't cheat with my friend's wife...) and they start trying to turn me on, I'm out of there. Done.

"Oh, well, she handled my junk. It was hot and kinky. I COULDN'T resist..." dude, you CHOSE NOT to resist. You just wanted to boink a slut, and she was offering. That was your choice. But you own up to it, you deal with the consequences without whining, and you get out of that situation.

There's a passage from the bible (oh no, he's a churchy! He's "preaching! Run!) from an older guy's point of view, he's seeing this young guy getting seduced by a married chick, and he's trying to warn all guys about this sort of thing. (A good lesson for even the athiests and non religious people out there.) Hard lesson to learn, as old as the concepts of marriage and fidelity, guys have had to deal with the temptation. The point is, it's not JUST the women's fault. You'd think a story like this, or any other well known warning like this would get through to us guys, but man, some of us are thick. Admit even I can be thick at times about it, too (though not with the cheating thing. That hasn't happened). We don't always listen. Ok, granted. But at least we should own up to it when we know we've messed up.

The guys I know, when they do something they know was wrong, they usually take measures to get rid of the problem, whether it's getting a "netnanny" for pornography addiction, or getting away from bars if they're serious alcoholics. They may screw up once in a while, but they work at trying to get themselves into a situation where they're not going to be doing that.

And as a side note, when you admit it to your "friend", don't blame her. You're already "blaming" a slut. Ok, so she's a slut. She's doing what sluts do. What's your excuse? Just own up to it.

My other advice, (other than possibly checking into getting a bodyguard after he tries to kill you) Go get yourself checked, because if she has no willpower when her husband goes on the road, then she's got no willpower with other men she's hot for (at the moment) when Timmy's on the road.

Your junk could turn green and fall off for all you know.

 

[hbxdoode]

stay away from her bro... end it now!!! its a crazy world we live in, he might kill your ass, you never know. it was a mistake, you hit it, good for you, but end it.

 

[ricorico]

What good happens if he confesses. They always kill the messenger. Tim will eventually find out who he married as she will do this again and eventually get caught.

This is living proof a lot of women will marry a guy they have no attraction to because he is safe and good husband material. Meanwhile fukking other guys behind his back and feeling she is entitled since the guy she married does'nt do it for her.

I don't feel sorry for people like her or the husband. Tim knows his wife is an attention *****. I bet she flirts right in front of him and he puts up with it because he's such a wimp and he's so grateful to have her.

 

[zerocelcius]

I slept with my friend’s wife as well. He knew about right away. He called me up and invited me to his house. When I got there she was crying and had belted out the whole story including the dirty little details! He was more hurt by what I did than her. They didn’t get along anyway and he expected her to cheat on him. He said if it wasn’t for the children and the pleasure of making her life hell than he would have left a long time ago.

I felt horrible and told him everything. Than they dropped a real bomb on me… they said she was pregnant. She wasn’t coming to find out. After talking to him and all of use getting it out and in the open. He reminded me how he said I was going to F his wife. It was true he said I was going to sleep with her 2 years before it happened.

In the end he said: “if you wanted to hit it; you should have told me and we would have tag teamed that a$$”
LOL he was always crazy…

Long Story short.. The guy is going to know. Especially if you are larger than him. BUT it almost sounds like she was out for revenge. Maybe he messed around on her? Anyway I know how you feel and it will only get worse until it all comes out and is dealt with. I seriously hope your friend is half as cool as mine.

Good Luck and Lesson Learned!
:nono: