"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I banged my friend's wife

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I don't think you should tell him. What good would come of that? She might not even tell him and for all you know she's done this with other guys. You could just deny it anyway. I would just lay low for awhile and see how everyone starts acting.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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this is what's wrong with the people on this damn forum now.

youro ptions are so ****ing low.. you are ****ing your best friends wife. she doesn't want you. you were at the right place at the right time and got lucky. you could have inserted 500 other guys int hat same situtation and she would have bene just as hot

assuming she did have the hots for you... if you are doing your **** you are suppposed to inl ife.. get used to it. women throw themselves at real men. you odn't have to **** all of them. you are expected to be a MAN and set bounderies.

****ing pathetic
 

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BB I don't think any of us said what he did was right, at least I know I'm not. I'm just saying now that he's done the deed, he should should just stay quiet. He's done enough damage as it is.
 

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he shud be quite. That boy needs to man up. I'm wit Back Breaker. ps backbreaker how you been pimp? son ima pm you in a min i want you 2 check some ish out 4 me and tell me what you think...
 

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A real man would've said no to his FRIEND's wife.

You lose a good friend, and you loose some of your unborn kids to a fvckin ho.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Everyone's acting like he's gonna die. We don't even know what this Tim guy is like. He never described him beyond his job.

Is he a violent guy? Does he have a short fuse? Or is he more of a pacifist? You should tell us what he's like.
 

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KARMIC LAW #18 - Do not ever put yourself in a position of impropriety involving the advances of a woman.

What you've done is forced yourself undue stress by having to sleep with one eye open and looking over your shoulder for what's coming. Was the pvssy that worth it? Not only did you shat on a friend, you've sullied your reputation, paranoia will set in and fvck up your focus and worst of all the chick is scandalous.

Think before you fvck. This "lost in the moment" mentality is for 15 year old kids in high school.
 
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No I don't consider Tim to be a angry guy. I don't fear for my well being, seeing as though I'm a lot bigger than Tim and he's not the kind of guy to go out and get a gun. To be honest, I don't think she is going to tell him either.

I'm very angry at myself for doing it, but it was so hard not to. Seriously, this women could be on the cover of Maxim.

And yes, the sex was that good.
 

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I would just keep quiet. Nothing good could come of you telling anyone about this. Well besides here where it's anonymous. I wouldn't hit it with her again. Just lay low and see what happens.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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you dont have to repeat how hot shes is and all dude. we get it. or could it be that you are trolling?? :p
 

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Yeah, post pics and videos to go with your story.

Nothing can go wrong with that :p
 
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If you dont believe me fine, but I'm in hot water right now and oculd use some good advice .
 

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Ok

1) He never stated this was his best friend

2) He should tell Tim and if Tim no longer wants to be his friend, they weren't friends to begin with.

3) He's not pathetic, he's human.

His wife had the obligations, not him. Now one could argue that he had an obligation to his friend not to screw his wife but let's look a little closer.

He didn't make the advancements, the wife did. AND he's being honest with his friend if he tells.

And yes, she may lie. But if Tim believes the slvt over him, were they really close friends? I think not.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It was her fault, not his. Every other guy in situation would have done the same thing, she wanted it.

Now just tell him straight up, let him know what a wh0re his wife is. Don't keep it quiet.. that's lame and she'll keep doing it.

Tell him now so he can get out. He should understand and get rid of her.
 
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I'm pretty sure I'm just going to lay low, but I need to talk to her to stop with the text messages and ****.

I guess I can never break it off again either, which is fine with me I guess, no need for more stress.
 

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wow I can't believe this...it sounds so erotic it almost sounds like some kind of fantasy..NO PICS/VID=LIES....

but really if this happened this is a perfect example of how women will marry a nice guy w/ money (which I assume he has since he's a realestate agent?) and then go cheat and F*** the badboy....
 
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DJ1234 said:
wow I can't believe this...it sounds so erotic it almost sounds like some kind of fantasy..NO PICS/VID=LIES....

but really if this happened this is a perfect example of how women will marry a nice guy w/ money (which I assume he has since he's a realestate agent?) and then go cheat and F*** the badboy....

Why would you think I have pictures of my friend's wife on my computer? She's not my wife. Sorry I don't have the video of it, I thought it would be pretty sleazy.
 

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I thought it would be pretty sleazy.
thats what i thought about someone sleeping with their friend's wife while he is out of town.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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