"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I attract Toxic women.

skinnyguy

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That sucks man. Those girls don't like me because they want a tattooed dbag and I'm super clean cut.

It could be you are actively seeking out a low quality woman. Similar to how women say they want "nice guys" and then get railed by an ex convict.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I've thought about this whole idea of "attracting a certain type of women" and I think it's just a catch-phrase to cover up how generally terrible the selection of today's women are.
But I attract the right kind of women.
 

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I've thought about this whole idea of "attracting a certain type of women" and I think it's just a catch-phrase to cover up how generally terrible the selection of today's women are. Women are always saying "I attract the wrong men" but it's because the "wrong" men have the right personality traits that attract them. The same goes for attractive women. They've been so fvcking spoiled and catered to that they've become "toxic". Guess what? Date an ugly or fat chick and she's likely "toxic" to some degree as well.

Saying you attract "the wrong type" of women throws a blanket over the issue that there are a LOT of terrible women out there. The good news is the more you date, the more likely you'll come across a halfway decent one.
Yes but you have to go through about 6 God awful ones that half ruin your mind and soul before you find that decent one and then when you do you can't recognize her until months after you have kicked her to the curb for the most minor thing you can find.
 

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That sucks man. Those girls don't like me because they want a tattooed dbag and I'm super clean cut.

It could be you are actively seeking out a low quality woman. Similar to how women say they want "nice guys" and then get railed by an ex convict.
I always attract the girl with 2-3 tats and was a fun bar party girl through college who is now straightened up. Not a ***** type girl, they always have a low count, but I am clean cut, preppy ex super athlete who always had cheerleader gf's but now it is always these " I like tats and piercings" girls who go for me and I have none. Not sure what it is. I look preppy but I boxed so I dont know if they think that is "bad boy" or what and attracts them, but they dont learn that about me until down the road. I truly dont get it, I accept tats but dont like them they arent attractive to me. I just cant understand today's girl.
 

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Everything else is kind of the opposite, I don't do drugs or get into trouble with the law or cause any trouble.
That may in itself be the reason you attract them. You're not trouble and to these troubled women it's hard to find a guy who doesn't mean trouble. They want what you have, they want to know how to not end up in trouble. They may not be aware that they want this, but somewhere deep inside that's what they really want.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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