"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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cablecow15

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Ok me and this girl i really like went on a date last weekend.We wached a movie and at the end we made out till the light came on inside the theater. We were friends for a while but i dident think it would matter much. Now on monday i was talking to her on the computer and her ex asked her out again i paniced and said i was going to later today she felt pressured and loged of the day after that i asked her if she had made up her mind and she said i really dont want a bf right now its almost summer and our friend is coming down over the summer and she might end up doing stuff with him and dosent want to hurt me or something like that. Im really pissed she basicly just said i like him more than you and im willing to wait for him. what was my main mistake and is there anything i can do to fix it up a little bit i would just next her but shes one of my friends and i like her alot. I will never try to date a friend again. any advice or similar experiences would be greatly appreciated.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Just play it cool. Whenever something "bad" happens between you and a girl, just step your game up and act like it didn't happen.
 
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dude you got to get oout of this AFC mind set, secondly practice english grammar, it will help a lot.
about your question, now firstly you have to know that when you like a girl,never approach her as a friend and hope to turn it romantic later on, in 99.9% of the time it wont work.
Secondly, you care about her too much, she is just a friend, get numbers off other girls and make sure you dont make the friend mistake again.
 
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