"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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i asked her out

cablecow15

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Ok me and this girl i really like went on a date last weekend.We wached a movie and at the end we made out till the light came on inside the theater. We were friends for a while but i dident think it would matter much. Now on monday i was talking to her on the computer and her ex asked her out again i paniced and said i was going to later today she felt pressured and loged of the day after that i asked her if she had made up her mind and she said i really dont want a bf right now its almost summer and our friend is coming down over the summer and she might end up doing stuff with him and dosent want to hurt me or something like that. Im really pissed she basicly just said i like him more than you and im willing to wait for him. what was my main mistake and is there anything i can do to fix it up a little bit i would just next her but shes one of my friends and i like her alot. I will never try to date a friend again. any advice or similar experiences would be greatly appreciated.

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Skilla_Staz

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Just play it cool. Whenever something "bad" happens between you and a girl, just step your game up and act like it didn't happen.
 

Zerotwoonenine

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dude you got to get oout of this AFC mind set, secondly practice english grammar, it will help a lot.
about your question, now firstly you have to know that when you like a girl,never approach her as a friend and hope to turn it romantic later on, in 99.9% of the time it wont work.
Secondly, you care about her too much, she is just a friend, get numbers off other girls and make sure you dont make the friend mistake again.
 
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