"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I ask her,she answers,then what?

tonyval

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Im going to ask a girl to be my gf,
I dont know what to do when she answer (yes or no both)
please give me an advice (for both situations yes and no)

EDIT: I know what to do when im in realationship but not how to start.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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NorwegianDJ

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I assume you've kissed and all that stuff already? Irrelevant. Kiss her if she says yes. If no, just be like, "Ok, cool".
It's not really important. Why do you have to ask her anyway?
 

tonyval

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Thanks for the advice,yeah i've kissed and all that stuff already.
 

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When she says yes, you look her in the eyes and give her a kiss on the lips or cheeck, whichever you feel more comfortable, and then you walk away. Give her time to enjoy the feeling of being your girlfriend and time to chat away with her friends.

If she says no, your facial expression shouldn't change. It'll show that you're unphased by rejection. Smile, say ok and walk away…..
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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