"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I ask her,she answers,then what?

tonyval

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Im going to ask a girl to be my gf,
I dont know what to do when she answer (yes or no both)
please give me an advice (for both situations yes and no)

EDIT: I know what to do when im in realationship but not how to start.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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NorwegianDJ

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I assume you've kissed and all that stuff already? Irrelevant. Kiss her if she says yes. If no, just be like, "Ok, cool".
It's not really important. Why do you have to ask her anyway?
 

tonyval

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Thanks for the advice,yeah i've kissed and all that stuff already.
 

alxrose04

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When she says yes, you look her in the eyes and give her a kiss on the lips or cheeck, whichever you feel more comfortable, and then you walk away. Give her time to enjoy the feeling of being your girlfriend and time to chat away with her friends.

If she says no, your facial expression shouldn't change. It'll show that you're unphased by rejection. Smile, say ok and walk away…..
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

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