"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I apologize guys....

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I've been bringing negative **** on here for over 2 months. I dont want to do it anymore. Furthermore I am sorry for posting stuff that puts us in the wrong set. I am sorry for laying my crap on all of you guys. I do appreciate all the help

I promise to refrain from posting anything negative

Now it is true I don't give a **** about any women at all now and that may be a positive thing

Except maybe that rage I have for one particular girl who did me wrong, but we all know who she is

Ugggh

What an evil ****ing world. I see why guys do crazy **** over women, it is horrible.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Furthermore, i may take a break from the game for a while. I have some career goals to worry about.

I have no interest at all in dating right now so this is likely to be a celibate summer by choice. Kind of ****ed up but I"m not feeling it at all.

I love my job but thats about it

I wont stay up here long if I feel the same way this time next year. > I might be 1 year and out
 
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You deserve to take a break from the game after of what just happened. Don't delve on it too much. Sh1t happens to everyone.
 
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Bright Side........

Be thankful you have a job you enjoy and that you can lose yourself in. I went through what you're going through about 3 years ago AND I had gotten laid off from my job at the same time and was out of work for almost a year. If you have your health, and a career you enjoy you've really got a lot. Keep your perspective, bro!

Lose yourself in your job and get David D's Advanced program and work on your inner game while you go through this time. Make this a time for great personal growth so that you can move on to some good relationships when you're ready.

gixx
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by BigDogOle
You deserve to take a break from the game after of what just happened. Don't delve on it too much. Sh1t happens to everyone.
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Yeah, but some of us wipe off the sh!t instead of sitting in it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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taking a break ?

cant recommend it - you gotta stay in the game, but you can tone down your power mode

continue to flirt, kino, bust but dont follow up

just enjoy it

/ scordate
 
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Fransisco brutal but true. I need to wipe the **** off.

I think I do need to stay in the game a bit, especially now that I'm numb to women except for that one.

I can take advantage of the fact I don't care to break down any social phobias I ever had.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Fransisco brutal but true. I need to wipe the **** off.

I think I do need to stay in the game a bit, especially now that I'm numb to women except for that one.

I can take advantage of the fact I don't care to break down any social phobias I ever had.
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I think he's got it!!! :up:
 
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