"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I apologize guys....

Ricky

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I've been bringing negative **** on here for over 2 months. I dont want to do it anymore. Furthermore I am sorry for posting stuff that puts us in the wrong set. I am sorry for laying my crap on all of you guys. I do appreciate all the help

I promise to refrain from posting anything negative

Now it is true I don't give a **** about any women at all now and that may be a positive thing

Except maybe that rage I have for one particular girl who did me wrong, but we all know who she is

Ugggh

What an evil ****ing world. I see why guys do crazy **** over women, it is horrible.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ricky

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Furthermore, i may take a break from the game for a while. I have some career goals to worry about.

I have no interest at all in dating right now so this is likely to be a celibate summer by choice. Kind of ****ed up but I"m not feeling it at all.

I love my job but thats about it

I wont stay up here long if I feel the same way this time next year. > I might be 1 year and out
 

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You deserve to take a break from the game after of what just happened. Don't delve on it too much. Sh1t happens to everyone.
 

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Bright Side........

Be thankful you have a job you enjoy and that you can lose yourself in. I went through what you're going through about 3 years ago AND I had gotten laid off from my job at the same time and was out of work for almost a year. If you have your health, and a career you enjoy you've really got a lot. Keep your perspective, bro!

Lose yourself in your job and get David D's Advanced program and work on your inner game while you go through this time. Make this a time for great personal growth so that you can move on to some good relationships when you're ready.

gixx
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by BigDogOle
You deserve to take a break from the game after of what just happened. Don't delve on it too much. Sh1t happens to everyone.
Yeah, but some of us wipe off the sh!t instead of sitting in it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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taking a break ?

cant recommend it - you gotta stay in the game, but you can tone down your power mode

continue to flirt, kino, bust but dont follow up

just enjoy it

/ scordate
 

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Fransisco brutal but true. I need to wipe the **** off.

I think I do need to stay in the game a bit, especially now that I'm numb to women except for that one.

I can take advantage of the fact I don't care to break down any social phobias I ever had.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Ricky
Fransisco brutal but true. I need to wipe the **** off.

I think I do need to stay in the game a bit, especially now that I'm numb to women except for that one.

I can take advantage of the fact I don't care to break down any social phobias I ever had.
I think he's got it!!! :up:
 
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