"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I am very unforgiving.

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Swede54

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It seems i am very unforgiving lately. If some friends(not really close friends) do anything that i dont really approve of, i just basically stop talking to them, and tell them to **** off in my head. Ex. one of my friends who hated my ex, and i hate her too. Started to be friends with her. (shes a girl too). But **** pisses me off, so i just said **** her. Just how i am lately, i feel good like this tho.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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You are an evil sinister dark man! You must be eating childeren for breakfast.

Maybe make some new friends?
 
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This is a good one to sort out while your young. Try and be objective and look for unconscious motives.

By all means have standards for friends, people with values similar to your own. Understand that no one is perfect though, including you.

You will be very lonely in life if you are too judgemental. Another reason people shun friends is becasue of some perceived slight from them. At any sign of rejection, unconsciously you reject that person first, before they reject you.


Or maybe you are growing and they're not, this always leads to friction.

I've recently lost a few, long time friends, distance has been a factor, but the main thing has been the change in me over the last year.

Cheers
 
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"Hate is a baggage, life is too short to carry it all around."
 
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