"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I am very unforgiving.

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It seems i am very unforgiving lately. If some friends(not really close friends) do anything that i dont really approve of, i just basically stop talking to them, and tell them to **** off in my head. Ex. one of my friends who hated my ex, and i hate her too. Started to be friends with her. (shes a girl too). But **** pisses me off, so i just said **** her. Just how i am lately, i feel good like this tho.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You are an evil sinister dark man! You must be eating childeren for breakfast.

Maybe make some new friends?
 
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This is a good one to sort out while your young. Try and be objective and look for unconscious motives.

By all means have standards for friends, people with values similar to your own. Understand that no one is perfect though, including you.

You will be very lonely in life if you are too judgemental. Another reason people shun friends is becasue of some perceived slight from them. At any sign of rejection, unconsciously you reject that person first, before they reject you.


Or maybe you are growing and they're not, this always leads to friction.

I've recently lost a few, long time friends, distance has been a factor, but the main thing has been the change in me over the last year.

Cheers
 
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"Hate is a baggage, life is too short to carry it all around."
 
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