"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I am trading in my new car for a classic

sapphire

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I have finally figured out that it is not worth paying what essentially amounts to a mortgage payment just to drive a new car that will lose about 15% of its value once you drive it out of the lot and gradually depreciate thereafter.

Instead, I am going to invest in classic cars that only increase in value over time and keep my little and cheap Scion as a daily driver.

I just bought this beauty from EBAY. Lots of power and fully loaded for only a fraction of the price of a brand new and totally boring and underpowered Honda accord.:







 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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italostud

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Uhm...you bought that thing?

Cars like that are alright but why didn't you get more of a muscle car? What kind is it anyways?
 

italostud

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BTW have you been playing a lot of GTA San Andreas?
 

BingoBango

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Dude forget the economics argument, that is f*cking cool!
 

sapphire

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The car is a 1967 Buick Wildcat Custom. It is considered to be a muscle car only a four door one. It has enough power to smoke the tires and is absolutely the ultimate cruiser.

I also bought 1970 Buick Riviera with only 17K miles on her. She is also quite a power house.

I am looking to buy a true muscle car soon, but the way prices are appreciating it is getting harder to snatch one that is even in fair condition to restore.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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One of my goals is to never finance a car.
 

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Cool.

I used to have a 71 Eldorado Convertible.

500 CI motor that put out 365 HP and a whopping 550 lbs. of Torque, and it was like driving your living room down the street.

Gas mileage sucked though, but that's what my Daily Driver is for.

Looked like this:

 

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Definately never finance a car. Old cars are cool & have character. Old cars are easier to work on & insure. Buying a new car is a waste. New cars depreciate so fast..a new $60k bmw M3 will be worth $37k in 4 years from now.
 
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