“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I am tired of Hook ups and ONS.

SharinganUser

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I am going to cut down on my drinking and my ONS, hook ups. I have just been getting a little stressed over getting std's, ect... Also the ONS haven't been very good and they've been more trouble than they're worth. ie, I met a girl at a bar and it took me hours to take her back to my hotel, She kept asking me where the hotel is(she didn't speak much english) and we didn't get to my hotel until 7:30 am. At which point I didn't have the energy to bang her for very long. Was it worth it to put up with her *****ing for about 4 or 5 hours? No. Another girl I hooked up with a few weeks ago was so lazy in bed, I had to do all the work.

That only covers the sex part. I am going to cut down on drinking because the hangovers are making me fat and unproductive.

I've only ever slept with 9 women but I'd say that only about 3 or 4 were good in bed. I am gonna start looking for a gf or f-buddy that I can trust. I am not saying I am going straight edge, just going to cut it down.

Lesson learned: Women can be just as troublesome when you have 'em as when you don't have them.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I went through the same thing several weeks ago. ONS just aren't the same as girls that you have good chemistry with.


Put that sharingan to use and weed out the ones who'll cause you grief.

Me on the other hand I've got...

....BYAKUUGAN!!!!
 

DonJuan11

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SharinganUser said:
I've only ever slept with 9 women but I'd say that only about 3 or 4 were good in bed. I am gonna start looking for a gf or f-buddy that I can trust. I am not saying I am going straight edge, just going to cut it down.

Lesson learned: Women can be just as troublesome when you have 'em as when you don't have them.
That is not a lesson, that is your opinion. Try telling someone who can't pay rent that money is as troublesome when you have it as when you don't have it.

ONS = One Night Stand
 
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SharinganUser said:
I am going to cut down on my drinking and my ONS, hook ups. I have just been getting a little stressed over getting std's, ect...
I've only ever slept with 9 women but I'd say that only about 3 or 4 were good in bed. I am gonna start looking for a gf or f-buddy that I can trust. I am not saying I am going straight edge, just going to cut it down.

Lesson learned: Women can be just as troublesome when you have 'em as when you don't have them.
All hors ors are "good" in "bed" but terrible in REALITY!!!! FLEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

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DonJuan11 said:
That is not a lesson, that is your opinion. Try telling someone who can't pay rent that money is as troublesome when you have it as when you don't have it.

ONS = One Night Stand

That could be considered your opinion too.

Suffering is a matter objectivity.
 

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ThunderMaverick said:
I went through the same thing several weeks ago. ONS just aren't the same as girls that you have good chemistry with.


Put that sharingan to use and weed out the ones who'll cause you grief.

Me on the other hand I've got...

....BYAKUUGAN!!!!
LOL
 

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ONS are better than nothing at all and most young women are so ADD'ed that getting them to do you more than once is almost impossible its like their goals is to do as many men as possible by a certain age...
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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