"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I am the definition of shy...and I have a success/failure story

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Never been on a date.
Never kissed.
Too shy to approach girls.

Saw this site...and tonight I tried some of the tips.

I was at the mall and I saw a girl eating by herself...so I bought some food and I actually went up to her and started to talk to her. (Success)

But I didn't get her number....(failure)

So I read on the site where it said to have the girl talk a lot and build off of what she talks about....I tried to do that but she was asking ME all sorts of questions at the beginning...so I felt like I was talking way too much...I tried to balance the conversation by asking her q's ... at the end she had to get back to work cause her break was over...

what to do....
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What are you talking about man... that was all a success.

Sure... you didnt get her #. Thats not what its about at the begining man.

Your learning, hell we all are, and from what i understand you just took a huge step man. You grabbed your balls and you went up to her.

You got rejected, but its never a failure if you learn from it.

Keep up the good work, bro.
 
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I wouldn't even call it a rejection. Way to go and keep it up.
 
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mad props. its tuff to go from being shy to approaching a girl at the mall where there are tons of people around.
What did she say when u # close?

Originally posted by kona
Never been on a date.
Never kissed.
Too shy to approach girls.

Saw this site...and tonight I tried some of the tips.

I was at the mall and I saw a girl eating by herself...so I bought some food and I actually went up to her and started to talk to her. (Success)

But I didn't get her number....(failure)

So I read on the site where it said to have the girl talk a lot and build off of what she talks about....I tried to do that but she was asking ME all sorts of questions at the beginning...so I felt like I was talking way too much...I tried to balance the conversation by asking her q's ... at the end she had to get back to work cause her break was over...

what to do....
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Re: Re: I am the definition of shy...and I have a success/failure story

Originally posted by david90
What did she say when u # close?
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Huh?

...I didn't ask for her number if that's what you're wondering....
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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she just had to go back to work.

Are you asking how to go back and continue talking to her? That would be kind of hard, you don't even know when she will be working, let alone on break. And if she is working, she can't sit there and talk to you.
 
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