"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I Am Teh Greatest And Im Here To Reign!!!!

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YEP, THATS RIGHT, I AM THE GREATEST.
I was the straggling MENACE in another account, the most notorious phenomenon taht had ever happened to it since Casanova, and I was BOOTED and BANNED from that site, not once, not twice, but a MILLION times. I have now decided to grace THIS site with my presence and I assure you, my reigh of terror here wil not only be fearsome, but exciting too.
ALL HAIL TO ME!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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MOCK ME, QWOULD YOU? IL,L MOCK YOU! IL MOCK YOU ITH THE BRILLIANEC OF MY IQ, WHICH STANDS PROUD AND TAL AT A STAGGERING 189 POINTS, A DIZZY 29 ABIVE THE LIKES OF THAT RETARD EINSTEIN....I RUSH IN WHERE FOOLS FEAR TO TREAD AND I CONQUER SO WTCH OUT! I AM THE GREATEST!!!!1
 
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I never in a million years would have thought that Charlie Sheen would end up here with us. Welcome, brother.
 
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T. H. E. -correct spelling for the word "the."
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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