"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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bonjove

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I've been sitting here at this public computer for 3 weeks straight for 4 hours in a row, and a girl just came up and struck noticed my psychology book sitting next to me. She started talking about how she liked the class when she took it and then asked me what I have been doing ... Well, I have been programming this videogame in the school's computer lab for 6 hours a day with minimul human contact before this time and was finding it hard to have a conversation with her, so she just talked; she asked about my program and commented that I must be smart and then said it was really interesting, and that she really wants to see it when I'm done [this is a boring monotonous thing and any idiot knows that. She then started to talk about making her own personal webpage and other computer related stuff, and then said that she will see me around and left to type a paper ...

She's still sitting in here as I type ...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ScrewIt

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possibly she's also the computer savvy type and admires the size of your forehead. nuff said, now go over and # close.
 
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scott44

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BULLSHYT YOU'RE NOT AN AFC! BE A MAN AND GET THE GOD DAMN NUMBER NOW!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Wiesman44

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c'mon bro. You been to this site for a year now ! You should know better to go after her !
 
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FreeStyleZ

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omg man, why not just ask for her # and suggest you guys get together some time to get a bite to eat and you might show her your completed program or some ****.
 
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