"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I am still a bit confused as to where to meet women casually

HardTimes

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I'm almost 27 and very single and to this day I am still a bit confused on where to be single women casually outside of the meat market type places like bars and clubs.

In my daily life, i don't really have much, if any opprotunity to meet single women. I mean here are the basic things that happen in my daily life give or take a few things depending on the day.

1. Work - No opprotunities. Work with 95% men (engineering), all at least 10-15 years older than me at minimum.
2. School - No opprotunities. I'm in night school, classes are 100% men (no exaggeration, 100%).
3. Family Outtings - No opprotunities, obviously.
4. Shopping - No opprotunities. Never see women out and about by themselves.

The only thing I will be adding to that mix starting next week is I'm going to be joining a martial arts class, hardly a place to meet women so I'm going to put that in the no opprotunities categories. I go out sometimes with friends to the meat markets but I'm bad at that and I don't go out nearly often enough to pratice. But in my casual daily life I don't really see a place to really meet single women. What am I missing here?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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MrLuvr

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How do you get to school or work? Do you drive or take public transport? What do you at lunch time at work? Are there other offices nearby where women come out during lunch? Do you ever stop for a coffee on the way to work or school? Are there any girls serving you coffee? When you go shopping you never notice girls working in the stores? What about the library at your school?

Just look around you, there are women literally every where. Unless you happen to live in Alaska.
 

HardTimes

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MrLuvr said:
How do you get to school or work? Do you drive or take public transport?
I drive.

MrLuvr said:
What do you at lunch time at work? Are there other offices nearby where women come out during lunch?
Sometimes I go out and sometimes I eat at work. There aren't any offices nearby. Well there are, but its the same company (I work in a huge campus).

MrLuvr said:
Do you ever stop for a coffee on the way to work or school? Are there any girls serving you coffee?
Yes but no one wants to get hit on while working plus its rude to hope up the line with random chit chat. Yes sometimes I have talked to the barista for a few minutes but thats about it, not enough time for anything substantial.

MrLuvr said:
When you go shopping you never notice girls working in the stores? What about the library at your school?
Same thing with the coffee shop senario.

MrLuvr said:
Just look around you, there are women literally every where. Unless you happen to live in Alaska.
Thats true, there are women everywhere, but none of them seem to be unattached or looking.
 

cola

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Go out to social gatherings..
Find out what's going on in your city (I'm assuming you work a lot but when you have time) find out about parades, carnivals, festivals and things of that nature.
You could be driving by and see a cute girl .. get out the car and go talk to her..

Go to the mall..
The movies..
Sporting events..

The only limit as to where to find females is your imagination..

** note I didn't advocate clubs and bars as I find them the WORST place to meet women..
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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