I've been in a slump for the longest time. Although, I am realizing what my problem is. If somebody calls me weird, I let it get to me. Now, in the end it doesn't matter, what people think, but what I think. That is the D.J. mindset. You have high respect for yourself. If somebody makes fun, of you, and you don't let it bother you, that makes it go away.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I am starting to get it.
- Thread starter crossboss
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
MooseGod
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One of my drunk-ass buds said it best... "Is there anyone in here you honestly give a fvck about?!"...while he was wearing a rasta wig with fake dreadlocks and an inflatable sheep duct-taped to his waist at a bowling alley. :crackup:
Honestly, nearly all really cool people just don't give a sh!t. You think Robert Plant was self-conscious of his borderline-fruity getups and leather pants tight enough to leave a d!ck print? Hell no, and that guy saw more pvssy than most gynecologists ever have.
Honestly, nearly all really cool people just don't give a sh!t. You think Robert Plant was self-conscious of his borderline-fruity getups and leather pants tight enough to leave a d!ck print? Hell no, and that guy saw more pvssy than most gynecologists ever have.
jesusrules
Senior Don Juan
crossboss said:
Thats right thats how all of us should be. But let me tell you its tough to sometimes not give a damn, but its really the true dj mindset to have.
