Bingo-Player
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Well given you're posting screenshots of them and attempting to flex some plane Jane swipe app women with dead convos I'd argue yes
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I am so done...
- Thread starter CaptFinnBad
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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Only start dating when you are comfortable living by yourself, don’t need a woman to fill the void, all nostalgia about your ex has completely gone and no contact with tiurhas been strictly enforced.
You need to have a mindset that any new woman you may be involved with is a compliment to your life, not the centre of it and that you are prepared to walk away without hesitation if things aren’t working out to your satisfaction.
Have an abundance mindset and be careful of the rebound effect/oneitus initially. The first relationship out of an LTR is always the hardest and it’s easy to regress into a blue pill mindset.
Be prepared for a high rejection rate with women once you re-enter the dating market but keep persisting and work on the things within your control to maximise your effectiveness.
Good luck.
You need to have a mindset that any new woman you may be involved with is a compliment to your life, not the centre of it and that you are prepared to walk away without hesitation if things aren’t working out to your satisfaction.
Have an abundance mindset and be careful of the rebound effect/oneitus initially. The first relationship out of an LTR is always the hardest and it’s easy to regress into a blue pill mindset.
Be prepared for a high rejection rate with women once you re-enter the dating market but keep persisting and work on the things within your control to maximise your effectiveness.
Good luck.
Divorced w 3
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This is supposed to be a place of support for OP. Whether or not I am taking the free hinge account seriously is irrelevant, he needs to know there is life beyond what’s happening here. Keep it positive.