Bingo-Player
Master Don Juan
Well given you're posting screenshots of them and attempting to flex some plane Jane swipe app women with dead convos I'd argue yes
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I am so done...
- Thread starter CaptFinnBad
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Only start dating when you are comfortable living by yourself, don’t need a woman to fill the void, all nostalgia about your ex has completely gone and no contact with tiurhas been strictly enforced.
You need to have a mindset that any new woman you may be involved with is a compliment to your life, not the centre of it and that you are prepared to walk away without hesitation if things aren’t working out to your satisfaction.
Have an abundance mindset and be careful of the rebound effect/oneitus initially. The first relationship out of an LTR is always the hardest and it’s easy to regress into a blue pill mindset.
Be prepared for a high rejection rate with women once you re-enter the dating market but keep persisting and work on the things within your control to maximise your effectiveness.
Good luck.
You need to have a mindset that any new woman you may be involved with is a compliment to your life, not the centre of it and that you are prepared to walk away without hesitation if things aren’t working out to your satisfaction.
Have an abundance mindset and be careful of the rebound effect/oneitus initially. The first relationship out of an LTR is always the hardest and it’s easy to regress into a blue pill mindset.
Be prepared for a high rejection rate with women once you re-enter the dating market but keep persisting and work on the things within your control to maximise your effectiveness.
Good luck.
Divorced w 3
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This is supposed to be a place of support for OP. Whether or not I am taking the free hinge account seriously is irrelevant, he needs to know there is life beyond what’s happening here. Keep it positive.