"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"I am so busy for now"

lizardking82

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Everyone is busy. If she says she is too busy, she is just too busy for you.



As her interest grows, she will naturally want to see you more. If she is super busy in med school, that is perfect for plate status. You can nail her 1-2 times a week, just don't get emotionally invested.
That is what I was suspecting, @Roober . In fact, I am not investing almost anything in her emotionally and although she's a virgin, she is down to **** and I think nailing her 1-2 times a week won't be a problem at all.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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When a woman says she is busy in her life right now, be that with work or school (not "busy and can never talk" kind), do they just mean they're not into you enough for them to make time or there are cases where they are really so ****in' busy? LOL and how can you tell?
Would they be busy if Leo DiCaprio asked them on a date?
 
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When a woman says she is busy in her life right now, be that with work or school (not "busy and can never talk" kind), do they just mean they're not into you enough for them to make time or there are cases where they are really so ****in' busy? LOL and how can you tell?
It's always "Too busy for YOU."

Cases where they are really too busy: 1. She's an ER doctor. 2.She's an engineer and a bridge just collapsed. 3. She's getting a kidney transplant.
 
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Guys, I think you got carried away a bit too fast here. She did not say she is too busy to meet me, in fact I am meeting her this Friday. She just said "I am very busy with school now and if something starts between us, I do not know if we can meet all that often". I found that interesting
This would have been a fantastic thing to put in the OP. It could have saved a lot of people getting carried away a bit too fast.
 
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