"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I am shaving my head tomorrow morning

Nabucodonosor

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Hello, good night (5.52AM here in Spain). I am a seventeen year old guy, I'm studying a degree in Computer Science and Informatics Engineering in Carlos III University in Madrid and I officially decided to shave my head tomorrow morning.

I'm happy to share this here for no reason.

Thanks for reading

PS How do you think this will affect my game with girls?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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KingBeef

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Who knows, it could be a good change of pace for you. Gotta see the before and agreed when you get the chance...
 

pyros

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Shaved head only fits guys that have a pretty handsome face or are famous lol, but for the majority of us having hair is way better than not having it.

Yo no lo haria...
Suerte.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The_flying_dutchman

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If you're a white guy, be careful, most white guys don't look good with a shaved head unless you have a really squared jaw/face like, say, David Bechham... also, if you shave with a razor people might think you're a skinhead.
 

salinechow

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Do it! I did mine when I was your age and never looked back!
 
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If you're fair skinned, you should try to gradually get some sun on your head. I say gradually because the last thing you want is to burn your scalp. No fun.
 

speed dawg

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I have a receding hairline too, but at this point I have enough hair where I cannot justify shaving. I am fired up for the day I can shave it, but again, I'm not going to just shave my head just to do it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Nabucodonosor

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Bump - for anyone that has the fear of shaving their head, it makes you look cool, respectable and it removes annoyance from fixing your hair at all times :)

I'll do it again soon. I encourage everybody to do it
 

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I'm cutting all of my hair off towards the end of the year :). I'm going totally bald. I have an Afro right now but it's just TOO MUCH work to keep this nappy thing looking somewhat presentable and even then....it STILL doesn't look presentable lol.
 

backseatjuan

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I used to shave my head bald, it's just not my style. I look way more attractive with hair.

OP in my honest opinion too looks more attractive with hair. OP post some results on your interactions, did you get better response with or without hair.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

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