"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I am shaving my head tomorrow morning

Nabucodonosor

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Hello, good night (5.52AM here in Spain). I am a seventeen year old guy, I'm studying a degree in Computer Science and Informatics Engineering in Carlos III University in Madrid and I officially decided to shave my head tomorrow morning.

I'm happy to share this here for no reason.

Thanks for reading

PS How do you think this will affect my game with girls?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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KingBeef

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Who knows, it could be a good change of pace for you. Gotta see the before and agreed when you get the chance...
 

pyros

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Shaved head only fits guys that have a pretty handsome face or are famous lol, but for the majority of us having hair is way better than not having it.

Yo no lo haria...
Suerte.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The_flying_dutchman

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If you're a white guy, be careful, most white guys don't look good with a shaved head unless you have a really squared jaw/face like, say, David Bechham... also, if you shave with a razor people might think you're a skinhead.
 

salinechow

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Do it! I did mine when I was your age and never looked back!
 
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If you're fair skinned, you should try to gradually get some sun on your head. I say gradually because the last thing you want is to burn your scalp. No fun.
 

speed dawg

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I have a receding hairline too, but at this point I have enough hair where I cannot justify shaving. I am fired up for the day I can shave it, but again, I'm not going to just shave my head just to do it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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amoka

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Nabucodonosor

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Bump - for anyone that has the fear of shaving their head, it makes you look cool, respectable and it removes annoyance from fixing your hair at all times :)

I'll do it again soon. I encourage everybody to do it
 

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I'm cutting all of my hair off towards the end of the year :). I'm going totally bald. I have an Afro right now but it's just TOO MUCH work to keep this nappy thing looking somewhat presentable and even then....it STILL doesn't look presentable lol.
 

backseatjuan

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I used to shave my head bald, it's just not my style. I look way more attractive with hair.

OP in my honest opinion too looks more attractive with hair. OP post some results on your interactions, did you get better response with or without hair.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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