"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i am really stupid, i know, std question...

shagnscoob

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i was at dennys on sunday. i KNOW THIS WAS STUPID, but there was a lady sitting behind me having cheesecake, and she left and i looked and there was alot of cheesecake left over. so i took it and ate it, using my own fork not hers.

since then i noticed a small bump on the inside of my left cheek(in my mouth, that is), its got seemingly nothing to do with anything on the outside of my cheek. and its right where my teeth meet, as if maybe i bit right there in my sleep or something. but its like a pimple, only i cant see it in the mirror when i open my mouth, its the same color as everything else, the only thing i can see is that theres a little bump there.

furthermore, i cant really think of anything else that mightve caused this. except perhaps playing trumpet alot, which ive been doing.

should i be worried or not? im pretty sure it takes way longer than this for something like that to develop, not to mention it seems EXTREMELY unlikely that i couldve picked up anything from her saliva being on her fork, to her cheesecake, to my fork, to my mouth, if thats even what caused it. im PRETTY SURE that this whole thing is my imagination, and the bump is totally irrelevant, but i want to be sure.

anyway, am i safe? am i clean? anything?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Might as well go see a doctor and get that thing looked at. You can never be too safe with these types of things.
 

white cloud 8

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thats some funny sh*t :rolleyes:, why would u eat someone else's leftovers ewwwwww......serves u right
 

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You have what is called herpes simplex. It's more commonly known as a "cold sore". There's tons of information available online about it.

http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&lr=&q=cold+sore+herpes

Now seriously, how hard up are you that you had to eat leftover food off of another persons plate after they left the table? I'd be worried more about the reasoning behind that decision than anything else - the next step is to dig around in garbage cans outside of McDonalds, which could cause you to get tetanus.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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shagnscoob

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it was pretty ****ing good cheesecake :cool:
 

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Next time order your own, ya cheap bastid. And don't try to claim it was for the starving kids in Asia, I know you don't give a **** about them.
 

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Well you've technically kissed her already, so you may aswell track her down and screw her, to get the rest of her diseases. Who knows...... One of them might even be the cure to this problem. :p
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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vanwilder

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90% of peopel have herpes simplex, who the **** gives a ****, if you have ever had a cold sore you have herpes simplex.

got herpes?
 

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Originally posted by vanwilder
90% of peopel have herpes simplex, who the **** gives a ****, if you have ever had a cold sore you have herpes simplex.

got herpes?
sure i do:cheer:

however i dont think he caught herpes in this manner. its harder to catch than eating after someone. perhaps he already caught it from kissing someone and just never broke out until now and didnt know it before.
 

vanwilder

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Originally posted by penkitten
sure i do:cheer:

however i dont think he caught herpes in this manner. its harder to catch than eating after someone. perhaps he already caught it from kissing someone and just never broke out until now and didnt know it before.
yeaaaaaaaa its a party, and i bet it was jsut by chance he got the sore as well. i used to get them when i was little, the canquer sores, havent had one in like 4-5 years now.
 

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I'm just surprised that people actually eat at Denny's
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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