“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I am now officially ****ing a 10

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This is one of the hottest girls I've ever ****ed. Flawless skin, nice thick long hair. Very thin. Nice ass. Works for a top fashion brand. Lives in one of the best parts of the city.

I think I managed to seduce her with my "I just got off the flight from Florida" game.

And she sucked me dry and swallowed every drop.

I'm meeting her again on monday and I don't really even need to txt her in the mean time because I've set the precedent of actually not texting her for a whole day the day before we were scheduled to meet. This was mega anxiety-inducing and I did that because of my friends advice. I still don't know for sure whether it was wise but I've got mixed feelings. Because she drunk texted me the night before so I could have easily inquired how her night was, my friend told me it would be beta so I didn't. So no texting for the whole day lol.

I know she felt it and was wondering why I didn't text.

Anyways now I can talk to virtually any single female that I see, any time of day and actually really be 100% outcome independent. Me and my buddy went out yesterday and I managed to seduce a doll of a blonde girl. Didn't get the number though because a dude she may have been fvcking walked in. I winked at her and we still made arrangements for a doubledate together with her friend and my buddy.
 

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This is one of the hottest girls I've ever ****ed. Flawless skin, nice thick long hair. Very thin. Nice ass. Works for a top fashion brand. Lives in one of the best parts of the city.

I think I managed to seduce her with my "I just got off the flight from Florida" game.

And she sucked me dry and swallowed every drop.

I'm meeting her again on monday and I don't really even need to txt her in the mean time because I've set the precedent of actually not texting her for a whole day the day before we were scheduled to meet. This was mega anxiety-inducing and I did that because of my friends advice. I still don't know for sure whether it was wise but I've got mixed feelings. Because she drunk texted me the night before so I could have easily inquired how her night was, my friend told me it would be beta so I didn't. So no texting for the whole day lol.

I know she felt it and was wondering why I didn't text.

Anyways now I can talk to virtually any single female that I see, any time of day and actually really be 100% outcome independent. Me and my buddy went out yesterday and I managed to seduce a doll of a blonde girl. Didn't get the number though because a dude she may have been fvcking walked in. I winked at her and we still made arrangements for a doubledate together with her friend and my buddy.
Pic please
 

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Congratulations, however it's not very useful to readers without knowing where you met her, how long you dated her and what you did to seduce her.

And you know you can't say 10 without a photo. 9 is pushing it as it is.
 

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You've seen her once? Let's not get ahead of ourselves just yet...You might never see her again still, just how chicks are these days...
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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10 is subjective but your game seems solid.

Disagree about texting the day before. When SHE initiates I respond, and they're free to initiate whenever they want. I might respond immediately...or I might take a few hours. Or I might even call her to chat for a minute or two.

My point is, When they initiate, they get rewarded. Classic push-and-pull.
I agree completely.

I don't feel like that was a wise choice either but my friend sort of manipulated me into not texting her.

Let me clarify though that I did respond to her drunk txts straight away, but I didn't send her a txt the next day to ask how her night was.
 

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When you are this excited about dating/f*cking a 10.. it means there is an imbalance of power.

What you want is the woman to be excited about you. This early in the game and you are already sweating bullets over the timetable of your text game? Lol.

Take it easy. I had two plates this summer who were both 9ish in hotness level. Amazing sex too. Both were really into me. Where are they now? Poof! Gone.

9-10 women are the flakiest creatures that ever walked the earth.
 

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Indeed indeed indeed.
 

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Never seen a 9 or a 10, but can't wait for the pic :)
You've never seen a 9? So you never saw a hot woman on Earth, ever? So, basically, you are gay?

There is something called normalization. The hottest girl you ever saw was a 10 and the hottest 10% were 9's.

This whole "compare people to perfection" strategy is getting old. It amounts to sour grapes. That's why I use statistics and ratings based on consensus and national averages. You can poo-poo the 99 percentile, but the joke is on you.
  • So your penis is only 8.5 inches? Some guys have 12 inch penises!
  • So your girl is only a 9? Some girls in magazines are tens!
  • So you only made a quarter million this year? Some guys made millions!
  • So you're only built like Tom Brady? Some guys are 300 pounds and jacked!
 

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You've never seen a 9? So you never saw a hot woman on Earth, ever? So, basically, you are gay?

There is something called normalization. The hottest girl you ever saw was a 10 and the hottest 10% were 9's.

This whole "compare people to perfection" strategy is getting old. It amounts to sour grapes. That's why I use statistics and ratings based on consensus and national averages. You can poo-poo the 99 percentile, but the joke is on you.
  • So your penis is only 8.5 inches? Some guys have 12 inch penises!
  • So your girl is only a 9? Some girls in magazines are tens!
  • So you only made a quarter million this year? Some guys made millions!
  • So you're only built like Tom Brady? Some guys are 300 pounds and jacked!
That other poster was right you have some issues you need to attend to, you got abnormaly defensive, I seen the women you posted they are not 10s not 9s sorry bud
 

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That other poster was right you have some issues you need to attend to, you got abnormaly defensive, I seen the women you posted they are not 10s not 9s sorry bud
That other poster, singular? There was more than one. That's the knee jerk reaction of people when you ask for proof.

Sorry bud, the women I posted scored 99% on Photofeeler and nobody ever posted higher 3 score average of 98 as my last girl (who btw came back to me last week).

Fact: Neil's women have normalized ratings of 9.0's and 9.9's.

But I believe you've never romantically seen any 9's or 10's.

If I hear one more poster here attempt to unilaterally declare a woman's rating without any consensus I'm going to snap.

Look through 12 Playboy Centerfold's and note that they are not ALL your type. But they are all 9's. You might not personally agree, but you don't get to declare the Chinese girl a 7 because you don't personally like Chinese girls.
 

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That other poster, singular? There was more than one. That's the knee jerk reaction of people when you ask for proof.

Sorry bud, the women I posted scored 99% on Photofeeler and nobody ever posted higher 3 score average of 98 as my last girl (who btw came back to me last week).

Fact: Neil's women have normalized ratings of 9.0's and 9.9's.

But I believe you've never romantically seen any 9's or 10's.

If I hear one more poster here attempt to unilaterally declare a woman's rating without any consensus I'm going to snap.

Look through 12 Playboy Centerfold's and note that they are not ALL your type. But they are all 9's. You might not personally agree, but you don't get to declare the Chinese girl a 7 because you don't personally like Chinese girls.
I used to think of the rating system working more like this:

10 = 100% of straight men would f*ck her

There are definitely women out there who just about ANY man would f*ck even if she isn't totally their type. These are 10's.

9 = 90% of straight men would f*ck her
8 = 80% of straight men would f*ck her
7 = 70% of straight men would f*ck her
6 = 60% of straight men would f*ck her
5 = 50% of straight men would f*ck her
4 = 40% of straight men would f*ck her
3 = 30% of straight men would f*ck her
2 = 20% of straight men would f*ck her
1 = 10% of straight men would f*ck her
 

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I am not sure if any woman can be considered a 9 by all.
Exactly. Not even an 8 by all, not even a 7 by all.

Hot or Not showed that the highest rated average for women was 6.9. That translates (normalizes) to a 10. People can't seem to grasp this concept.

A 10 is not someone everyone says is a 10. A woman's rating is based on consensus. If every guy in the room of 100 would f*ck her and you say "Eh... I'd give her a 7" you are missing the point.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Don't get complacent it was one days
I used to think of the rating system working more like this:

10 = 100% of straight men would f*ck her

There are definitely women out there who just about ANY man would f*ck even if she isn't totally their type. These are 10's.

9 = 90% of straight men would f*ck her
8 = 80% of straight men would f*ck her
7 = 70% of straight men would f*ck her
6 = 60% of straight men would f*ck her
5 = 50% of straight men would f*ck her
4 = 40% of straight men would f*ck her
3 = 30% of straight men would f*ck her
2 = 20% of straight men would f*ck her
1 = 10% of straight men would f*ck her
80% of men would probably fvck a 5. That's the sad state of affairs today.
 

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Please I've seen photos of normal looking chicks I knew on hot or not rated 7s 8s and they were really 5s
 

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Don't get complacent it was one days


80% of men would probably fvck a 5. That's the sad state of affairs today.
I should of said WORK to f*ck. Guys have lower standards for easy sex.

8 = 80% of men would actively TRY to f*ck her.

Most men would f*ck a 5 or 6 of its easy enough. But if its too much WORK 50-60% of men will pass.
 

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Alright cat's in the bag a bit more snugly now.

Made her *** 4 times in a row recently.

She was at a bar. I just got off the flight from Florida. I was with my buddy we were filming ourselves. She checked the phone to see the footage. That's how the chit-chat began. She was from the UK, I said yeah english people are very polite. I asked her what she was in the country for and she said work etc. So I asked if she would like to do something some time and she said yeah she would like to have coffee. So I took the number and gave her a kiss on the cheek.

So I start txting about the coffee etc. We met up 2 days later at 2 PM. After we had our coffee we went to the park and drank some wine and made out a little. Next day we went out for drinks and ended up at my place.

Every time that I see her I been making plans for the next little meetup. I read somewhere that's a game no-go, but I completely disagree now. Always make plans for the next time if you want there to be a next time.

So that's it.

Sex is better than anything (except possibly the daddy-issue girlfriend I had that drove me up the wall). Personality is certainly better than anything. Looks also better.

After coming down from my high of the conquest I suppose I would have to say she's more of a high 8. 8.6 or so. maybe 8.8.
 
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