"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I am noob, what do you get from this?

Fedor

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There's this girl in my year at college, I don't know if she is into me or if she is only being friendly towards me.

She is a bit shy I think, and I have doubts because she doesn't talk to me every day. However, when she speaks to me, she speaks in a really girly tone, and she compliments me a lot on things like the way I dress and my hairstyle and stuff when nobody else does.

But she might just be being friendly to me.

She has a boyfriend at the moment I know she likes a lot, but she still looks and glances at me a lot, and sometimes she stares at me when she is hugging her bf (lol)

Thoughts anyone?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Alextheegreat

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Fedor said:
There's this girl in my year at college, I don't know if she is into me or if she is only being friendly towards me.

She is a bit shy I think, and I have doubts because she doesn't talk to me every day. However, when she speaks to me, she speaks in a really girly tone, and she compliments me a lot on things like the way I dress and my hairstyle and stuff when nobody else does.

But she might just be being friendly to me.

She has a boyfriend at the moment I know she likes a lot, but she still looks and glances at me a lot, and sometimes she stares at me when she is hugging her bf (lol)

Thoughts anyone?
My guts would say NEXT lol. If she does this while having a boy friend, what if she dumps her boyfriend just to go out with you. She will pull that same **** over with you once she finds another guy. So in reality, just move on before you get hurt, theres plenty of more girls at your school that are way hotter ha.
 

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I think she's just being friendly. These types even give out their numbers. I've met so many girls who are like this. I mean to put it in blunt, they are just that... friendly.
 

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hey are you looking at her when shes hugging her boyfriend maybe shes thinking "wats he looking at"
 
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