"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Fedor

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There's this girl in my year at college, I don't know if she is into me or if she is only being friendly towards me.

She is a bit shy I think, and I have doubts because she doesn't talk to me every day. However, when she speaks to me, she speaks in a really girly tone, and she compliments me a lot on things like the way I dress and my hairstyle and stuff when nobody else does.

But she might just be being friendly to me.

She has a boyfriend at the moment I know she likes a lot, but she still looks and glances at me a lot, and sometimes she stares at me when she is hugging her bf (lol)

Thoughts anyone?
 

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Fedor said:
There's this girl in my year at college, I don't know if she is into me or if she is only being friendly towards me.

She is a bit shy I think, and I have doubts because she doesn't talk to me every day. However, when she speaks to me, she speaks in a really girly tone, and she compliments me a lot on things like the way I dress and my hairstyle and stuff when nobody else does.

But she might just be being friendly to me.

She has a boyfriend at the moment I know she likes a lot, but she still looks and glances at me a lot, and sometimes she stares at me when she is hugging her bf (lol)

Thoughts anyone?
My guts would say NEXT lol. If she does this while having a boy friend, what if she dumps her boyfriend just to go out with you. She will pull that same **** over with you once she finds another guy. So in reality, just move on before you get hurt, theres plenty of more girls at your school that are way hotter ha.
 

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I think she's just being friendly. These types even give out their numbers. I've met so many girls who are like this. I mean to put it in blunt, they are just that... friendly.
 

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hey are you looking at her when shes hugging her boyfriend maybe shes thinking "wats he looking at"
 
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