Here is my situation. I have known this girl for 3 years or so. I like this girl alot. I tried presenting my feelings a long time ago but she just said, "I appreciate you telling me how you feel,but I thought we were just friends." She calls me all the time to get me to out with her so that she can pretend that she is my girlfriend in public. I am sick of that crap. I decided to leave her to her own nonsense. I ignored her and started dating other girls (way hotter girls).She met me one day, as I was on a date with a nice hot blonde( mmmh!).she was quick to call and ask who that was and we needed to hang out more often. The sad thing is that I would sometimes be thinking of her when with other girls then quickly lose interest in the girl I was dating and just ignore them. All my dates would never compare to my "friends". I have actually had the best times of my life with her and I hate it. Its killing me. I want out. I have fallen in love( yeah, I said it) with her yet I am tongue tied and dont understand where my courage has gone. I never used to be like this. I always told her crazy things sometimes without thinking. what do I do?? 