"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I Am Looking For The Universal Opener !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ALPHAROMEO

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i am lookin for the holy graal

i am looking for the UNIVERSAL OPENER that d you coul apply in any situation

does such an opener exist?

I ve READ SOME CRAP OPENER BY c xuma the marketter

" YOU GOT SOME GREAT ENERGY ABOUT IT " ....what a lo' o" crap
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It doesnt exist...unless its "hi" because to truly be good at getting women you have to be in the moment, you cant be in your head trying to think of the best routine, you have to be connecting with her there and then.
 
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r0cky

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I know of hundreds. But one thing you should be aware of is the inverse relationship of effectiveness of opener and getting laid. The more effective the opener is, the less your chances of creating attraction. The less effective the opener (ex. OMG, you're ****ing sexy) the more it creates attraction in the few times that it works.
As you gain experience you'll realize that the opener doesnt matter and you can always open with anything.
 

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eye contact is the universal opener.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Mr Wright said:
It doesnt exist...unless its "hi" because to truly be good at getting women you have to be in the moment, you cant be in your head trying to think of the best routine, you have to be connecting with her there and then.
^This.

Women love a guy who has the balls to approach spontaneously, ie without any already prepared scripted stuff.
 

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the only universal opener is "HI" but keep in mind, no opener will get you laid no matter how good it is. your opener does not build attraction, it only opens the conversation. openers open, thats it, you still have to build attraction and close.
 
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