"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I Am Looking For The Universal Opener !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ALPHAROMEO

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i am lookin for the holy graal

i am looking for the UNIVERSAL OPENER that d you coul apply in any situation

does such an opener exist?

I ve READ SOME CRAP OPENER BY c xuma the marketter

" YOU GOT SOME GREAT ENERGY ABOUT IT " ....what a lo' o" crap
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Mr Wright

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It doesnt exist...unless its "hi" because to truly be good at getting women you have to be in the moment, you cant be in your head trying to think of the best routine, you have to be connecting with her there and then.
 
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r0cky

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I know of hundreds. But one thing you should be aware of is the inverse relationship of effectiveness of opener and getting laid. The more effective the opener is, the less your chances of creating attraction. The less effective the opener (ex. OMG, you're ****ing sexy) the more it creates attraction in the few times that it works.
As you gain experience you'll realize that the opener doesnt matter and you can always open with anything.
 

Alex DeLarge

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eye contact is the universal opener.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mr Wright said:
It doesnt exist...unless its "hi" because to truly be good at getting women you have to be in the moment, you cant be in your head trying to think of the best routine, you have to be connecting with her there and then.
^This.

Women love a guy who has the balls to approach spontaneously, ie without any already prepared scripted stuff.
 

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the only universal opener is "HI" but keep in mind, no opener will get you laid no matter how good it is. your opener does not build attraction, it only opens the conversation. openers open, thats it, you still have to build attraction and close.
 
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