"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I am going to flake this chick Tonight

Tkman

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We were suppose to go out on Wednesday, but she flaked me. Reason = "I am babysitting my sisters kids" -> pure bull -> I can smell it

To find out on Thursday some traits of hers:

+ she likes attention *attention ******
+ she just broke out of a 1.5 years relationship - looking for a chump to satisfy her EGO
+ she's 2 years older then me
+ MAJOR EGO PROBLEM - "do you think I am fat?" ... "how do my legs look?" ...
Dont get me wrong this chick is good looking but I am not willing to sacrifice my dignity to satisfy her EGO.

I asked her out tonight (FRIDAY), but this time I am just going to flake her out because I know she's going to flake me.


I will keep you all updated.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Lifeforce

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If you don't like her why do you go out with her? Next her instead of wasting time doing some petty revenge you could be spending on something fun or meeting a new chick.
 

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be a fvcking man and just ignore. i know you'll feel vindicated by doing this sort of revenge, but you'll stoop down to her level? are you some pvssy or are you gonig to spend the next couple of weeks buffing yourself up and finding other girls that will treat you right?
 

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We were suppose to go out on Wednesday, but she flaked me. Reason = "I am babysitting my sisters kids" -> pure bull -> I can smell it
Doesn't have to mean she's really flaking you. Have her make it up to you.

+ she likes attention *attention ******
All girls like attention. Be realistic. Is she really that bad?

+ she just broke out of a 1.5 years relationship - looking for a chump to satisfy her EGO
How long ago? Yeah, you might be the rebound guy but it could also be she really likes you. Don't jump to conclusions.

+ she's 2 years older then me
How is that a problem??

+ MAJOR EGO PROBLEM - "do you think I am fat?" ... "how do my legs look?" ...
All girls ask questions like that. Don't run for every girl that asks you this cuz you'll end up in a crummy appartment kissing your rosey palm goodnight after doing the deed.

What I'm trying to say is, all these things you mention don't really mean anything. Ofcourse you might know better since you are actually experiencing her but to me, all these things shouldn't really be a problem.

Besides, if she really is disrespecting you like that and you feel she is just looking for attention and egostrokes, just forget about her and move on. Flaking on her is not what a man should do. It is what a girl would do to get back at you. Don't play girls games because they invented it and they see right through.
 

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Update:

The stupid ***** invited me to her place and promised to make me dinner !!!

woooot woooot
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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golf299

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way to stick to your guns :rolleyes:
 

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mind sharing how you got that to happen? i have the strangest feeling it wasnt the "im gonna flake you back" strategy.
 

Quick

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Originally posted by J-Man
mind sharing how you got that to happen? i have the strangest feeling it wasnt the "im gonna flake you back" strategy.
Yes, please share.

And please explain why you care is she's a stupid ^$#^#.
 
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