"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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One suggestion I had in mind, is to go completely bald. ( I have heard bald people have a nice testosterone boost ) do you guys have any other suggestions?

I am a 23 year old male
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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yep, shave!

If my head wanted to lose hair, I'd help it by finishing the job.
 

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Either embrace it or be like LeBron and hold onto it for as long as possible.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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This is a recently sited paper in medical journals, baldness is due to lack of blood flow to the scalp. It means your scalp is tightening cutting off blood flow to your scalp, which because of gravity already receives the least blood flow. The bad news is it means you might have early stages of artery hardening (atherosclerosis) What you need to do is change and your diet and massage your head. First do some research to gain a foundation and different view points
 

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This is a recently sited paper in medical journals, baldness is due to lack of blood flow to the scalp. It means your scalp is tightening cutting off blood flow to your scalp, which because of gravity already receives the least blood flow. The bad news is it means you might have early stages of artery hardening (atherosclerosis) What you need to do is change and your diet and massage your head. First do some research to gain a foundation and different view points
Thanks for the recommendation. I would try it. Should I consult a doctor?
 

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This is a recently sited paper in medical journals, baldness is due to lack of blood flow to the scalp. It means your scalp is tightening cutting off blood flow to your scalp, which because of gravity already receives the least blood flow. The bad news is it means you might have early stages of artery hardening (atherosclerosis) What you need to do is change and your diet and massage your head. First do some research to gain a foundation and different view points
What diet do you suggest?
 

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let me teach you something OP this post is the epitome for you of what women think/say and what they do!

embrace your baldness shave it off keep it tidy, grow some stubble that matches top

women will say there not a massive fan of bald blokes THEY ****ING LOVE US i believe they hit a certain age and just love bald blokes

the top action movie stars are bald and women crave the fck out of them

dwayne johnson walked onto a UK tv show the other night Take in mind there was 4 equally as famous superstars on the sofa, and the crowd went into meltdown
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Always said I’d shave it off and grow a beard when the time came.
 

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Buzzcut it and hit the gym hard to get the badass muscular bald dude look going.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ain't natural to be going bald at 23.

Check with a medical specialist.
 

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Ain't natural to be going bald at 23.
I did they said its through bodies immune response. But frankly I don't think he knew what he was saying. I plan to get my self checked up via skin specialists.
 

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Buzzcut it and hit the gym hard to get the badass muscular bald dude look going.
Exactly what I'm in the process of doing... losing my hair has been a HUGE confidence hit, I'm sure you can relate, but having read THE GAME (Neil Strauss) twice in the past 6 months... has helped a little bit haha.

But in other view, has anyone here tried Bosley (or any other hair growth place / process / etc.) ? I can't believe it's 2018 and we still haven't found a cure for this shiiiit !
 

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Basically that's the vibe you want. Just with less cold, merciless malice in your voice. If you can stare down bigger bald guys, even better.
 

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I shaved mine as soon as I started to lose it 1 year ago.
No regrets. I look more manly and people respect me more.

Its funny how people on the streets unconsciously move slightly to the side so you can pass, or when you are in a restaurant and the waiter goes directly to you to ask what people want assuming you are the leader of our group just by your looks.

You gotta accept you are not going to be pretty, cute, or any of that ****. If you are bald you gotta be dominant, assertive and have a strong frame.
If you are bald, embrace it and it will be fine.

Also, if you are worried about women, know that if you have the above characteristics and is muscular (I am working on that myself) you will have no problem.

Interestingly I noticed a few weeks ago that my balding did not progress within this last year. I was expecting to be completely bald within 1 or 2 years, but somehow it did not progress, so I decided to try rubbing some coconut oil in my scalp everynight and I am being able to regrow my bald spot. I recovered about 80% of the bald spot. It just keeps improving, so I expect 100% recovery. I wasnt even expecting that. I just tried because I heard it could work.
Thats cool, but I will still shave it. I love the bald look.

Edit: bro, just a warning: do not use this Propecia ****! Your penis is more important than you hair. Woman dont mint guys with no hair, but they sure mind a guy with a useless penis.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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