"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I am fed up with what I am and finally willing to change... I really need help

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BannedGod

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What made me realise? Today I was at a party (small party only with friends) and there was this girl that I have oneitis on, and everytime I was seeing her getting close to someone, or other mutual friends going to dance with her, I couldn't help but feel... not jealous, but kinda cold, emotionless, wtv I don't know how to describe that. Result: I had a crappy night, I barely had fun, and I realised my case is sad... Despite certain small attemps, I am still a major AFC and I realised that today, and I need help to change that because I am sick of it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Next time at a party, talk to everyone and smile and have a good time. Imagine if there was an oberserver at the party who was trying to guess who is having to most fun. You need to be that guy. Girls, and people in general, go to the center of the fun at a party. If for someone reason you can't have fun, fake it. If you cant fake it (too tired, etc) then leave. Whenever you are at a party, you need to be having fun, or else why would you be there? People who hang at parties and are wallfloweres are insecure, and everyone picks up on that.
 
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You are thinking about it in the wrong terms. You aren't going to change. You are going to grow and improve. Infact I would go as far as saying you will be MORE intouch with who you actually are. Right you are just putting on an AFC costume.

Before you can move forward, I highly suggest getting your personal issues sorted out. That will make everything else a lot easier.
 
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