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Master Don Juan
agreed. but i've always wanted to do stuff like gliding and shiit. just not sure how to go about it.renigebdj said:PS: must work on my english![]()
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
agreed. but i've always wanted to do stuff like gliding and shiit. just not sure how to go about it.renigebdj said:PS: must work on my english![]()
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
more people play guitar than bass= FACT. I play guitar because i want to. Not to impress girls. If you're playing bass OR guitar to impress girlsitishe said:Remember:
Bass guitar > guitar.
The low end gets a girls panties wet, or so I've heard.
You'll know you're starting to live a fulfilling life if you quit playing Counter-Strike because you don't have the time or you lost interest in it. I pretty much quit playing PC games as a whole (I was a PC game ***** too), and I must say I enjoy life ten fold more. I use that time more constructively and I'm quite proud of that.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
MrConfidence said:Well, it really depends more on which one YOU like better, rather than what gets girls. I myself prefer Bass Guitar, but I also know a lot of people who prefer guitars. Guitar is also harder to get good at(It's a lead instrument, you have to learn chords, there are more strings, and so on).
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.