Hello Guys,
I had an experience recently that left me a little confused. I read a lot of stuff on this website, and I feel much more confident about myself now. The results are beginning to show. Anyway to my story.
About 10 days ago I went to a co-worker's martini party, the crowd was mostly couples (husband/wives, bf/gfs). I am single, and was just having fun, engaged in several conversations and never even thought about any women there as women (don't want to hit on your boss' wife hehe). One of the women there, was always trying to be next to me and talk to me. It got to the point where I was trying to avoid her. At the end of the party, one of my co-workers handed me a business card and said that that woman, call her Kelly, had asked her to give it to me. I also learned that Kelly was there with her loser boyfriend she had been unsuccessfully trying to dump for a long time. I was definitely flattered, so I gave Kelly a call 2 days later. I joked around and she said she had given me the card, because she thought I was cute. I asked her to have ice cream with me, she agreed, but later she asked if I would instead go to dinner, since she was hungry. I agreed...(possible mistake? gave in to her?) So we had dinner and she suddenly started telling me about her boyfriend, and how he was unemployed and she was tired of him etc. I politely suggested we don't talk about him. We switched topics. Then I suggested we take a walk and look for some ice cream still, gotta do it my way
We walked around town, talking, ended up with no ice cream (shops closed). Anyway, during that time, the boyfriend still came up in her conversation. She shut herself up this time. At some point during the date, I decided to go in for the kiss. To my surprise, got her cheek! I was 150% sure it would be the lips!
I got kinda bummed out. She started saying that if she kissed me, she would feel like she is cheating on her boy(him again!).
At that point I said, that if she were attracted to me, she would kiss me. I stopped the date, and at the very end said, that if she were ever to try to give her number to someone, she should sort out her boyfriend situation first. That I was not going to be her shoulder to cry on about her relationship. It was 10 days ago, she has not called me, I haven't either. I want to call her, should I? Or just forget her? She is kinda strange, but aren't all women?
Any advice on this or in general?
Thanks a buch!
I had an experience recently that left me a little confused. I read a lot of stuff on this website, and I feel much more confident about myself now. The results are beginning to show. Anyway to my story.
About 10 days ago I went to a co-worker's martini party, the crowd was mostly couples (husband/wives, bf/gfs). I am single, and was just having fun, engaged in several conversations and never even thought about any women there as women (don't want to hit on your boss' wife hehe). One of the women there, was always trying to be next to me and talk to me. It got to the point where I was trying to avoid her. At the end of the party, one of my co-workers handed me a business card and said that that woman, call her Kelly, had asked her to give it to me. I also learned that Kelly was there with her loser boyfriend she had been unsuccessfully trying to dump for a long time. I was definitely flattered, so I gave Kelly a call 2 days later. I joked around and she said she had given me the card, because she thought I was cute. I asked her to have ice cream with me, she agreed, but later she asked if I would instead go to dinner, since she was hungry. I agreed...(possible mistake? gave in to her?) So we had dinner and she suddenly started telling me about her boyfriend, and how he was unemployed and she was tired of him etc. I politely suggested we don't talk about him. We switched topics. Then I suggested we take a walk and look for some ice cream still, gotta do it my way
We walked around town, talking, ended up with no ice cream (shops closed). Anyway, during that time, the boyfriend still came up in her conversation. She shut herself up this time. At some point during the date, I decided to go in for the kiss. To my surprise, got her cheek! I was 150% sure it would be the lips!
I got kinda bummed out. She started saying that if she kissed me, she would feel like she is cheating on her boy(him again!).
At that point I said, that if she were attracted to me, she would kiss me. I stopped the date, and at the very end said, that if she were ever to try to give her number to someone, she should sort out her boyfriend situation first. That I was not going to be her shoulder to cry on about her relationship. It was 10 days ago, she has not called me, I haven't either. I want to call her, should I? Or just forget her? She is kinda strange, but aren't all women?
Any advice on this or in general?
Thanks a buch!