"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I Am BROKEN..Please HELP ME

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Warrior I'm sorry, I couldn't make another post yesterday because of the limit. I have been working all day.

Here's the thing Warrior and others here, my situation is a little different. The issue is that I've tried and I do all of what's been suggested and I think after thinking this over last night, I think I know what the issue is.

It's very hard to explain and quite honestly, it sounds really stupid. Very stupid, but I know this is my problem.

Did you want me to PM you about it or what? If you are free I can talk by phone if you want also.

Sorry if this is coming off as a troll, I know "last week" I was acting a fool about this site but it's just because hey I wanted to have more convos on things I was going through. I didn't intend for it to come off as a troll or something.

And btw, I'm not really familiar with this online discussion forum stuff, what is a troll? Is it someone that interrupts the "conversational flow" around here or it is someone that just posts crap all day?

If I'm coming off as either one its not intentional.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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sodbuster

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A troll is someone who runs around the site trying to start sh1t,makes up stories etc. just look at your past posts-running your mouth about how all women are sugar and spice,we are wrong ,bitter,etc. Perfect definition for your past,now you come in here heartbroken[another story?]
 

Drewskie

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Read some of his other posts, he's a pretty smart dude. I think he's doing a good job of trolling here just to mess with everyone.
 

wunnaBsmooth

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window said:
online dating = arrange for a 45 min coffee meet and greet within 4 emails tops. If they refuse get the fck outer there.

This advice ROCKS!

not for the OP.. But it Rocks! 1 more rule to remember... If I ever decide to online date.... (I personally think it's a waste of time because I'm always dissapointed in what shows up...lol)
 

Buddha_Mind

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Dude, you have to chill out. You have to stop and breath. Go some place and meditate for awhile on the temporary nature of all things and how some day your beating heart will cease in its chest. Why the **** are you worrying about this woman?

Any person who unleashes on someone like that is a terrible human being. There are many ways she could have talked to you and ended in friendship (even if she did think you are ugly).

Who cares if someone thinks your ugly? Some girls might find you to be a stud. Others aren't impressed. It's all relative. Who gives a **** if this woman thinks you aren't attractive?

What you need to focus on right now is:

Self-Love

Stop hating on yourself and your life. You only get one chance here. Then this whole thing is over. Ask yourself, what do you want out of your life and who do you want to be? Work towards these things. Women who are genuinely attracted to you (in looks and as who you are) will come.

Stop talking to this ***** right away, and love yourself man. Your the only one you'll ever have -- your the only body and brain that you'll ever get to experience.

Keep learning. Keep working.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Veridin

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The Message Boy said:
And btw, I'm not really familiar with this online discussion forum stuff, what is a troll? Is it someone that interrupts the "conversational flow" around here or it is someone that just posts crap all day?

If I'm coming off as either one its not intentional.
Everyone who has spent more than an hour in an online forum is familiar with the word "troll" and doesn't need to ask. When you are 26 and have more than 250 posts in a forum, and probably hundreds of more posts elsewhere over the years, you know how "troll" is used.



Comes from "trawling" by the way. As in trawling a thread to catch reactions, like a fishnet through the sea.
 

squirrels

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What the hell??

What ONE GIRL off the INTERNETS says is enough to shatter your entire self-image??

This is the "Mature Man" forum. If you want to act like a 14-year-old, I suggest the High School forum.

By the way...DO you look like the pic you had online? Or DID you scam this girl??
 
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