"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I am back and I am single!

Nicholas Hill

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Hello guys,

It has been a long time since I last spoke on here or offered tips, or updated the Bible. That was because I was involved in a long term relationship and felt that it was not necessary to continue in this venture, knowing all that I did.

However, things change.

Now three and a half years have passed, and my ex broke up with me. Of all the things I could have, maybe should have felt, I decided to not mope around and feel sorry for myself, and I decided not to do silly things like call her or email her all the time. My ability to do this partially stems from all the things I learned from this site and from you guys, thank you very much!

As a result of my unusually calm reaction, I have now gained a friend in place of the loss.

But now, I'm back in the game and looking to improve myself like I did before, but before I started posting useful things here again, I thought I owed it to everyone's many hours of work here to let you guys know.

Have fun,

Nick
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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IamtheAlphamale

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Welcome back man. You looking at doing any type of new bootcamp or anything? You've already helped tons of us out huge. Thank you.
 

Don Quijote

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Nicholas Hill,

One thing that would interest me,would be just how is this friend that you have just now gained will be part of your life?
 

Fred Da Head

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Holy cowboy!

Nice to see you back here, my good man. Glad to have some of the good ol' boys to show those new guys a thing or two about how it's really done.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Vulpine

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Nicholas Hill said:
Now three and a half years have passed, and my ex broke up with me. Of all the things I could have, maybe should have felt, I decided to not mope around and feel sorry for myself, and I decided not to do silly things like call her or email her all the time. My ability to do this partially stems from all the things I learned from this site and from you guys, thank you very much!
[fanfare] All hail the return of a legend! [/fanfare]

*bows*

What a rare and wonderful treat to read a breakup post such as this! No :cry:, no :cuss:, no "how can I get her back, guys?"

All I can do is offer my sympathies for your 3 1/2 years lost, Nick. Welcome back. :eek:
 
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