TheGambino
Master Don Juan
Guys please read this carefully and advice me on how you would view and deal with this. I trust my mother, two of my loyal best friends and all of you the most in life. I thank this forum so much so my deepest thoughts and problems are open for all these great people.
My thought was do nothing, cut family ties and move on this whole situation. This thread will show you how women act and think towards men. They are sort of blaming me or giving me a stab in the heart for my father's decision and what happened afterwards.
Background:
I have three half sisters, all older then me, they are in their 50s and im only in my late 20s. We have the same father. My father divorced from their mother and (I assume) that their mother still loved my father.
My father went on vacation and met my mother, he married his second wife and got me as a child. His daughters (my three half sisters) cut contact with him in those days...
My parents had a bad relationship, marriage and they divorced when I was 5 years old. My mom bad mouthed my dad, and my dad bad mouthed my mom my whole childhood. I grew up with my mother and my father supported us with money even though he divorced my mom.
My father owns a bar/restaurant but he ''gave'' it to his nephew and wife and they own it now. My mom tried to get it for her and me but he gladly (for his side of the family) didn't do that. I don't even want it...
I had a great childhood with friends but I was a agressive, bossy kid. Loads of fighting at school and clubs, I was a known fighter and ended in the police station several times, even 3 days in prison for a big fight 8 years ago. After that day I never ever fought someone again, I decided to better my life. Became a gym rat, quit smoking weed and living more healthy. I started to study. My sisters most likely know my agressive history and it will make sense for them. I am the son of the second woman in my fathers life, shes not good, he is no good and he proofs it hisself.
Years and years later..
This year, out of the blue I contacted one of my three half sisters. She is succesfull. She was CEO of a big international company for several years and started her own beer brand 2 years ago. She is wealthy, has a estimated 50 million. I asked her for an internship at her company (that I do now) and she agrees. We meet up and she is very distant, okay no sweat.
Now it's a year later and I need two more months to finish my internship. In that year several things happened: I made a mistake, I was drunk, told my cab driver where I work and do my internship but the atm was closed so I told him to get money inside the house but I went to sleep without paying. The next day he sends the ticket to my internship company (sister) and her associate calls me that a angry cab driver called about what happened. I told her what happened, that it wont happen again and quickly paid the ticket.
During my internship I contacted my sister a few times due e-mail to ask her to help me with a business and clients, she never replied on my e-mails and I quit contacting her. Her associates were nice to me but act very distant and uninterested after the cab drive incident. This whole thing got me pretty f8cked up in january, I wrote a thread about it but I shook it off and went on with gymming, working for school and having fun in life.
Now my threads main subject, read this very carefully if you are straight forward of helping me:
The daughter of one of my other sisters is very succesfull aswel, she is only 23 but she is a known photographer, has thousands of instagram followers, hangs out with stars and known rappers in Holland and works with names like French Montana, very known europian producers and rappers and even worked for Mario and a couple more RnB singers in America. How?? I have no idea, being very forward, good looking, worcaholic and knowing the right people. Anyway my family knows how to do business (all women).
She made a movie about my dad's life. They kind of ignored me during the whole process, I saw my neece who produces and shot the movie in a bar a month ago and I approached her (a bit drunk). I quit drinking alcohol 2 weeks ago by the way.
I made small talk and I told her that I wanted to see the movie and that I would be very disapointed if she didn't invite me ( I spoke out of my heart, since she's my neece and not some sort of plate or crap). She assured me to call me and I moved on.
Weeks later I receive a invite from her mother on email for a family day (one of my sisters, she is the nicest and sweetest imo). I agree and yesterday was the day.
We had breakfast at (rich sister where I do my internship for) in her establishment, small talked everyone there but the rich sister ignored me. Tried to ask her how she was doing but she looked to the other side and made very clear that she was not interested in talking.
Moved along and we went to the cinema with the bus. The movie was okay, I learned how my father got in Holland, how we worked and saved money, how everyone loved and liked him during his life and how he met their mom and how they got children.
Nearing the end of the movie and after all the love and great things were told about my father the documentary speaker says, he wasn't the greatest father and husband.
At the end of the movie my neece asks my father in a interview (the essence of this movie): Do you regret something? His replie: Yes, I regret something very, very, very deeply. Neece: Do you want to talk about it? Father: No, I'd rather not and he starts to cry a little.
I am very sure that he means that he regrets meeting my mother, marrying her, and getting her to live with him and getting me as a son. Therefor cutting ties and contact with his first wife and their children.
Their invite, and this particular part of the movie feels like a message and a stab towards me (and my mom) to set this straight for their mothers sorrow.
After the movie we went back to the beer company (establishment of my rich sister) and the movie maker (little 23 yo neece) invited a known club owner. He was kind of bragging about all known people he hanged out with this weekend. He asked my neece about the movie because she said I worked so hard on it all these months and I was listening and sitting in front of her.
She put on the video to the club owner guy on the part: ''Do you regret something?
My other neece was next to me eye balling her like don't!
I acted like nothing happened, talked some more, kissed my father, kissed and thanked the sister that made the movie (with her daugher) and bailed.
The only thing I can be very, very proud of is this: I look good, very fit, I have a strict balanced diet and work out 5 days a week at least. I was wearing great clothes and my whole family noticed how groomed and healthy I am. Next to that I am very confident and I didn't feel a sweat the whole day. I am to icy for that due my life experiences and growth.
So what do you guys think of this? What is your advice? I shared my deepest secrets with the forum that bettered the quality of my life SO MUCH! I love you guys and I hope that you won't move this thread and give everyone the oppurtinity to give me advice on how to give this a rest and use it for positive motivation.
I have a new business opportunity and I wanted to ask my (rich sister) for advice on the rent price, and contracts but I will not ask her anything anymore whatsoever, after yesterday's rejection.
My thought was do nothing, cut family ties and move on this whole situation. This thread will show you how women act and think towards men. They are sort of blaming me or giving me a stab in the heart for my father's decision and what happened afterwards.
Background:
I have three half sisters, all older then me, they are in their 50s and im only in my late 20s. We have the same father. My father divorced from their mother and (I assume) that their mother still loved my father.
My father went on vacation and met my mother, he married his second wife and got me as a child. His daughters (my three half sisters) cut contact with him in those days...
My parents had a bad relationship, marriage and they divorced when I was 5 years old. My mom bad mouthed my dad, and my dad bad mouthed my mom my whole childhood. I grew up with my mother and my father supported us with money even though he divorced my mom.
My father owns a bar/restaurant but he ''gave'' it to his nephew and wife and they own it now. My mom tried to get it for her and me but he gladly (for his side of the family) didn't do that. I don't even want it...
I had a great childhood with friends but I was a agressive, bossy kid. Loads of fighting at school and clubs, I was a known fighter and ended in the police station several times, even 3 days in prison for a big fight 8 years ago. After that day I never ever fought someone again, I decided to better my life. Became a gym rat, quit smoking weed and living more healthy. I started to study. My sisters most likely know my agressive history and it will make sense for them. I am the son of the second woman in my fathers life, shes not good, he is no good and he proofs it hisself.
Years and years later..
This year, out of the blue I contacted one of my three half sisters. She is succesfull. She was CEO of a big international company for several years and started her own beer brand 2 years ago. She is wealthy, has a estimated 50 million. I asked her for an internship at her company (that I do now) and she agrees. We meet up and she is very distant, okay no sweat.
Now it's a year later and I need two more months to finish my internship. In that year several things happened: I made a mistake, I was drunk, told my cab driver where I work and do my internship but the atm was closed so I told him to get money inside the house but I went to sleep without paying. The next day he sends the ticket to my internship company (sister) and her associate calls me that a angry cab driver called about what happened. I told her what happened, that it wont happen again and quickly paid the ticket.
During my internship I contacted my sister a few times due e-mail to ask her to help me with a business and clients, she never replied on my e-mails and I quit contacting her. Her associates were nice to me but act very distant and uninterested after the cab drive incident. This whole thing got me pretty f8cked up in january, I wrote a thread about it but I shook it off and went on with gymming, working for school and having fun in life.
Now my threads main subject, read this very carefully if you are straight forward of helping me:
The daughter of one of my other sisters is very succesfull aswel, she is only 23 but she is a known photographer, has thousands of instagram followers, hangs out with stars and known rappers in Holland and works with names like French Montana, very known europian producers and rappers and even worked for Mario and a couple more RnB singers in America. How?? I have no idea, being very forward, good looking, worcaholic and knowing the right people. Anyway my family knows how to do business (all women).
She made a movie about my dad's life. They kind of ignored me during the whole process, I saw my neece who produces and shot the movie in a bar a month ago and I approached her (a bit drunk). I quit drinking alcohol 2 weeks ago by the way.
I made small talk and I told her that I wanted to see the movie and that I would be very disapointed if she didn't invite me ( I spoke out of my heart, since she's my neece and not some sort of plate or crap). She assured me to call me and I moved on.
Weeks later I receive a invite from her mother on email for a family day (one of my sisters, she is the nicest and sweetest imo). I agree and yesterday was the day.
We had breakfast at (rich sister where I do my internship for) in her establishment, small talked everyone there but the rich sister ignored me. Tried to ask her how she was doing but she looked to the other side and made very clear that she was not interested in talking.
Moved along and we went to the cinema with the bus. The movie was okay, I learned how my father got in Holland, how we worked and saved money, how everyone loved and liked him during his life and how he met their mom and how they got children.
Nearing the end of the movie and after all the love and great things were told about my father the documentary speaker says, he wasn't the greatest father and husband.
At the end of the movie my neece asks my father in a interview (the essence of this movie): Do you regret something? His replie: Yes, I regret something very, very, very deeply. Neece: Do you want to talk about it? Father: No, I'd rather not and he starts to cry a little.
I am very sure that he means that he regrets meeting my mother, marrying her, and getting her to live with him and getting me as a son. Therefor cutting ties and contact with his first wife and their children.
Their invite, and this particular part of the movie feels like a message and a stab towards me (and my mom) to set this straight for their mothers sorrow.
After the movie we went back to the beer company (establishment of my rich sister) and the movie maker (little 23 yo neece) invited a known club owner. He was kind of bragging about all known people he hanged out with this weekend. He asked my neece about the movie because she said I worked so hard on it all these months and I was listening and sitting in front of her.
She put on the video to the club owner guy on the part: ''Do you regret something?
My other neece was next to me eye balling her like don't!
I acted like nothing happened, talked some more, kissed my father, kissed and thanked the sister that made the movie (with her daugher) and bailed.
The only thing I can be very, very proud of is this: I look good, very fit, I have a strict balanced diet and work out 5 days a week at least. I was wearing great clothes and my whole family noticed how groomed and healthy I am. Next to that I am very confident and I didn't feel a sweat the whole day. I am to icy for that due my life experiences and growth.
So what do you guys think of this? What is your advice? I shared my deepest secrets with the forum that bettered the quality of my life SO MUCH! I love you guys and I hope that you won't move this thread and give everyone the oppurtinity to give me advice on how to give this a rest and use it for positive motivation.
I have a new business opportunity and I wanted to ask my (rich sister) for advice on the rent price, and contracts but I will not ask her anything anymore whatsoever, after yesterday's rejection.
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