SharinganUser
Master Don Juan
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Nope, not drunk.runner83 said:Big boobed?
Hard to tell from the pic, but my assessment is B-cup.
Are you either drunk posting?
Big enough for me.Alias(es) Sola Aoi
Height 1.55 m (5 ft 1 in)
Measurements 90(G Cup)-58-83(cm)
35-23-33(inch)
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
never have and normally not my thing. Was on the west coast this year and saw what might have been the most smoking hot asian in my life. There was no effort on my part to conceal me scoping out her ****ing hot ass body. I was truly and utterly floored.cordoncordon said:Agree on the Asians....hottttt. I'm addicted to it to. My gf of two years is honestly the only gf I have ever had that I never get tired of banging. And we have sex easily 6-10 times a week for the past 2 years. And all the Asian girls I have had before that? So hot. Such tight bodies. Perky tits. Beautiful skin and eyes. Doesn't get any better. For all the guys that have never had an Asian, you are missing out if you like the small, tight, petite type.
GF>Medium C's here. 5'5", 115 pounds. And trust me, not passive haha. Very fun relaxed girl with an edge to her.
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I live in the LA area and I cannot tell you how many hot Asians are out here. Especially in the Pasadena and Orange County area. There is this club in Orange County called Sutra where it is literally like a hot Asian fest. Just cannot stop looking haha. In Vegas at the Encore too at club XS.synergy1 said:never have and normally not my thing. Was on the west coast this year and saw what might have been the most smoking hot asian in my life. There was no effort on my part to conceal me scoping out her ****ing hot ass body. I was truly and utterly floored.
That said, I think i might have to give it a try. Have had a few opportunities, but never sealed the deal there. ...maybe 2011? And whos to say that only only american jobs are being lost to asia!??!?!?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Big-boobed for an Asian girl.runner83 said:Big boobed?
Hard to tell from the pic, but my assessment is B-cup.
Are you either drunk posting?