Teen Spirit
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- Aug 6, 2004
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I asked her about the name and she said it was a family nickname or something.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
- What are you looking for?Posted by Pookie:
How can I find what I am looking for without being totally robbed?
Really ??Originally posted by Pookie
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I guess I took the easy way out.
Truth is, girls are just as insecure about it all as the guys.
Haha you sir get a cookie.Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
And there is no spoon....
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
didn't think it was very important until everyone went ape sh*t over the possibility he returned.Originally posted by Void
but really pook moved to texas? why didnt u tell us?![]()
we love pook![]()