"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I am a new DJ and Messed up help!

tjslove

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A girl I have known since childhood has played games in the past.(not calling back, saying she loves me and never calls) and we have gone out on and off and had a good time..........She also has rejected me plenty..........two days ago I wrote her:

First please send me the number when you can. I have Jets tickets availible this year for your brother, which I did not have last year.

Secondly, congrats on the promotion.

Third........I would like to see you. Yes, I miss you and I really don't care about wearing it on my sleeve when it comes to you. I feel comfortable with that when has to do with you.

Now she invited me to her Apt..........what is going on? Now she calls back immediately and has called on her own
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Men don't tell women how they feel, we show them! Did you try to kiss her yet? If no, why not?
 

lYlasTer

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honestly I don't think you have much of a chance with her, you're reeking of desperation. If she has rejected you plenty, then that means she's not into you. The best thing to do is to leave her alone, improve yourself, and then give her one last shot when you're a Don Juan.
 
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