"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A girl I have known since childhood has played games in the past.(not calling back, saying she loves me and never calls) and we have gone out on and off and had a good time..........She also has rejected me plenty..........two days ago I wrote her:

First please send me the number when you can. I have Jets tickets availible this year for your brother, which I did not have last year.

Secondly, congrats on the promotion.

Third........I would like to see you. Yes, I miss you and I really don't care about wearing it on my sleeve when it comes to you. I feel comfortable with that when has to do with you.

Now she invited me to her Apt..........what is going on? Now she calls back immediately and has called on her own
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Men don't tell women how they feel, we show them! Did you try to kiss her yet? If no, why not?
 
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honestly I don't think you have much of a chance with her, you're reeking of desperation. If she has rejected you plenty, then that means she's not into you. The best thing to do is to leave her alone, improve yourself, and then give her one last shot when you're a Don Juan.
 
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