"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I am a new DJ and Messed up help!

tjslove

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A girl I have known since childhood has played games in the past.(not calling back, saying she loves me and never calls) and we have gone out on and off and had a good time..........She also has rejected me plenty..........two days ago I wrote her:

First please send me the number when you can. I have Jets tickets availible this year for your brother, which I did not have last year.

Secondly, congrats on the promotion.

Third........I would like to see you. Yes, I miss you and I really don't care about wearing it on my sleeve when it comes to you. I feel comfortable with that when has to do with you.

Now she invited me to her Apt..........what is going on? Now she calls back immediately and has called on her own
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Men don't tell women how they feel, we show them! Did you try to kiss her yet? If no, why not?
 

lYlasTer

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honestly I don't think you have much of a chance with her, you're reeking of desperation. If she has rejected you plenty, then that means she's not into you. The best thing to do is to leave her alone, improve yourself, and then give her one last shot when you're a Don Juan.
 
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