I am a busy girl - ?

[powersize]

When a girl says she likes to spend time with you but at the same time flakes on pretty much every invitation you send, no counter offer, no initiation from her side, claiming she is busy - does is sounds like BS aka low interest for you?

I have blocked her after this and moved on.

Once a girl flew from a different country cause she wanted to see me - so I do not believe in "busy girl" crap.

 

[Robert28]

How does she like spending time with you if she never spends any time with you?

 

[Modern Man Advice]

When a girl says she likes to spend time with you but at the same time flakes on pretty much every invitation you send, no counter offer, no initiation from her side, claiming she is busy - does is sounds like BS aka low interest for you?

I have blocked her after this and moved on.

Once a girl flew from a different country cause she wanted to see me - so I do not believe in "busy girl" crap.

You did well by blocking and moving on.

Surely you know this already, follow a womans' actions, not her words. Typical "bait and reel" behavior based on her needs at the moment.

She was a time-waster.


Modern Man Advice

 

[MissouriMark]

A woman is never too busy for a man she has high interest in. A chick I've been dealing with off and on is in an abusive relationship with a guy she's living with, and I remember one time I told her I was at a bar up the street from where she lives insinuating for her to come meet me.

Well this guy she's with monitors her like a hawk and she was in the middle of doing laundry and couldn't really just up and leave for awhile without him being suspicious, so she counter offered with me coming over to her apartment instead and meeting her in the laundry room RIGHT ACROSS from her apartment door. Risky on her part and I guess with me as well, but it was definitely exhilarating having sex in the laundry room at 2 in the morning with her abusive boyfriend just feet away across the hall oblivious to everything.

Point being, she had high interest and found a way for us to meet up no matter what the risk was. A low interest woman would have definitely not done that.

 

[zinc4]

When a girl says she likes to spend time with you but at the same time flakes on pretty much every invitation you send, no counter offer, no initiation from her side, claiming she is busy - does is sounds like BS aka low interest for you?

I have blocked her after this and moved on.

Once a girl flew from a different country cause she wanted to see me - so I do not believe in "busy girl" crap.

It's so unattractive when women talk about how busy they are. It really just either means she is either a self absorbed headache or she just has low IL.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Women with high interest will rob a bank for the right guy.

Flakes are unacceptable. One flake and she’s out. Forever.

 

[manfrombelow]

When a girl says she likes to spend time with you but at the same time flakes on pretty much every invitation you send, no counter offer, no initiation from her side, claiming she is busy - does is sounds like BS aka low interest for you?

I have blocked her after this and moved on.

Once a girl flew from a different country cause she wanted to see me - so I do not believe in "busy girl" crap.

When in doubt, always look at the actions.

 

[Barrister]

When a girl says she likes to spend time with you but at the same time flakes on pretty much every invitation you send, no counter offer, no initiation from her side, claiming she is busy - does is sounds like BS aka low interest for you?

I have blocked her after this and moved on.

Once a girl flew from a different country cause she wanted to see me - so I do not believe in "busy girl" crap.

This isn't low interest. It is NO interest. You were just giving her validation through your attention -- aka an AW. You made the right call to block and move on.

 

[Zimbabwe]

There is no such thing as a busy woman, nobody is that busy that they can't spare a single evening a week to meet up with you.

It's really not that hard to organise your time/re arrange your schedule.

 

[MissouriMark]

You make this sound like a bad thing.... I mean, he's right to be suspicious, seeing as she is fvcking around with you on the side.

He is an Marine and UFC nut and beats the hell out of her all the time. He's on parole and she SHOULD call the cops on him and get him put back where he belongs but won't out of fear. Apparently they're basically just roommates at this point but he still controls her like they're together and is jealous of other guys around her. That's why I only treat her as an occasional side piece and nothing more cuz she's too damaged for anything else, and probably not even worth having around for sex either.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

When a girl says she likes to spend time with you but at the same time flakes on pretty much every invitation you send, no counter offer, no initiation from her side, claiming she is busy - does is sounds like BS aka low interest for you?

I have blocked her after this and moved on.

Once a girl flew from a different country cause she wanted to see me - so I do not believe in "busy girl" crap.

#next I got a special Blick delete button for her. The fact you keep trying shows how wack your game is.

Text where and when. Comply or bye. Delete upon anything but compliance. She can hit me up. Hotter girls are turning 18 everyday.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

Whenever a woman tells me she's busy I just don't respond anymore, then if she reaches out again I tell her "Sorry I was busy" and then usually ignore her again afterwards, the second the term Busy comes around its like a woman saying "I don't know you that well" except instead of sex it's about her mere time, same wave length

 

[EyeBRollin]

Whenever a woman tells me she's busy I just don't respond anymore, then if she reaches out again I tell her "Sorry I was busy" and then usually ignore her again afterwards, the second the term Busy comes around its like a woman saying "I don't know you that well" except instead of sex it's about her mere time, same wave length

I agree in principle but that passive aggressive tit for tat stuff comes off as butthurt.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

He is an Marine and UFC nut and beats the hell out of her all the time. He's on parole and she SHOULD call the cops on him and get him put back where he belongs but won't out of fear. Apparently they're basically just roommates at this point but he still controls her like they're together and is jealous of other guys around her. That's why I only treat her as an occasional side piece and nothing more cuz she's too damaged for anything else, and probably not even worth having around for sex either.

Dude sounds like a loser

 

[Bokanovsky]

He is an Marine and UFC nut and beats the hell out of her all the time. He's on parole and she SHOULD call the cops on him and get him put back where he belongs but won't out of fear. Apparently they're basically just roommates at this point but he still controls her like they're together and is jealous of other guys around her. That's why I only treat her as an occasional side piece and nothing more cuz she's too damaged for anything else, and probably not even worth having around for sex either.

And you know all of this how, exactly? From seeing bruises on her body first hand? Or because the wh*re told you so?

Every cheating wh*re has a sob story to justify her wh*ring. And 70% of the time, it’s “abusive boyfriend”. You are very naive if you believe her “too afraid of him to call the cops” story.

 

[MissouriMark]

I definitely saw bruises on her in person. I'd like to call the cops on him, but that's between them 2. Any man who beats on a woman like that is not a real man, I don't care if he served our country or not, he needs to get help to deal with his PTSD, and not take it out on a woman. I don't like seeing that sheet whether I know the woman or not, but again, she needs to do the right thing and kick him out etc. It's not for me to get personally involved in their situation. I'm just a guy on the side and that's fine with me, but probably still should let it go and continue pursuing other women.

 

[Zimbabwe]

And you know all of this how, exactly? From seeing bruises on her body first hand? Or because the wh*re told you so?

Every cheating wh*re has a sob story to justify her wh*ring. And 70% of the time, it’s “abusive boyfriend”. You are very naive if you believe her “too afraid of him to call the cops” story.

Bettered woman syndrome, I'm guessing this is an evolutionary trait since men who conquered other tribes would take their women as captives.

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[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

I agree in principle but that passive aggressive tit for tat stuff comes off as butthurt.

At the point of her being busy I feel free to do as I please, it's all for my own entertainment passed the point of her basically saying she's not interested

 

[Zimbabwe]

At the point of her being busy I feel free to do as I please, it's all for my own entertainment passed the point of her basically saying she's not interested

I used to reply with

"Get back to me, when you learn to organise your time better"

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

I used to reply with

"Get back to me, when you learn to organise your time better"

Just have fun with it, rejection is an everyday thing for me and everyone else who does it, you have to learn to love the taste, I always leave room for her to come back