"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
I am a 19 year old virgin
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
john paul
Senior Don Juan
I dont think being a virgin will help make you any more or less attractive to a girl. Shes not going to stop liking you or start liking you just because you have never had sex.
I wanted it first with the first girl I did anythign with and cared really for. That girl is gone and I am now 19, single and horny. The principle is dead and it died with her dumping my soft ***** ass. Hardened once more like I was at teh start of the relationship, yet more masculine built, fitter, better and more direct.
It shan't be too long before this window of opportunity in finding if it is a good idea admitting to the stigma is over. I'll get laid soon ;-)
john paul
Senior Don Juan
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
Some girls wanna be your first because you will remember them forever . They also wanna play with unexperienced guys and show dominance .
On other hand , telling that you're virgin is demonstration of lower value . Tells that you have no sexual life , you have n o many choices etc .
It depend on girl and on your game .
afrojiggles
Don Juan
john paul
Senior Don Juan
SinJester said:
Im not saying to lie about it but I just wouldnt bring it up.
If she asks then tell her the truth but dont go out of your way to tell her because it just sounds like you dont know enough to land a girl in the sack.
theunflushables
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
As for telling a girl your a virgin. Some girls think thats cute and they will feel proud of being your first. But timing is everything. Telling a girl you just met, or on your first date, that you are a virgin is a bad thing. But telling her when you are making out and about to have sex, is a good thing.
I like juggler's view that it isn't a problem but an oppurtunity. How do you know that she will care and be dissapointed? Some girls might but some wont. At least if you say a virgin it might lead to her thinking sexually about you. Admitting it is not showing lower value unless you say 'yeah I've totally been trying to get laid but failed miseraby'. Tell her it was your choice.
...Unless its just a ONS then just fck her.