“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I am a 19 year old virgin
- Thread starter Porky04
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
john paul
Senior Don Juan
I dont think being a virgin will help make you any more or less attractive to a girl. Shes not going to stop liking you or start liking you just because you have never had sex.
I wanted it first with the first girl I did anythign with and cared really for. That girl is gone and I am now 19, single and horny. The principle is dead and it died with her dumping my soft ***** ass. Hardened once more like I was at teh start of the relationship, yet more masculine built, fitter, better and more direct.
It shan't be too long before this window of opportunity in finding if it is a good idea admitting to the stigma is over. I'll get laid soon ;-)
john paul
Senior Don Juan
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
Some girls wanna be your first because you will remember them forever . They also wanna play with unexperienced guys and show dominance .
On other hand , telling that you're virgin is demonstration of lower value . Tells that you have no sexual life , you have n o many choices etc .
It depend on girl and on your game .
afrojiggles
Don Juan
john paul
Senior Don Juan
SinJester said:
Im not saying to lie about it but I just wouldnt bring it up.
If she asks then tell her the truth but dont go out of your way to tell her because it just sounds like you dont know enough to land a girl in the sack.
theunflushables
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
As for telling a girl your a virgin. Some girls think thats cute and they will feel proud of being your first. But timing is everything. Telling a girl you just met, or on your first date, that you are a virgin is a bad thing. But telling her when you are making out and about to have sex, is a good thing.
I like juggler's view that it isn't a problem but an oppurtunity. How do you know that she will care and be dissapointed? Some girls might but some wont. At least if you say a virgin it might lead to her thinking sexually about you. Admitting it is not showing lower value unless you say 'yeah I've totally been trying to get laid but failed miseraby'. Tell her it was your choice.
...Unless its just a ONS then just fck her.