"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Do you guys tend to have more success (as in better response from girl, as to just number of girls gotten) when you aren't even trying to get a girl, or do you perform better when you see a girl, desire her, and go after her?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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It just depends on how you handle the situation. If you're able to chat up females, then you will succeed. If they approach you and you're able to respond appropriately, you will succeed. It's all in your attitude and your actions.
 
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Thanks for the advice, though I'm not asking for help. I just want to know what goes down in your lives. Do girls attract to you when you are getting the mail, or do girls fawn when you work for it?
 
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Females certainly do not "flock" to me of their own accord; I'm a very average looking person. Once I finally work up the "guts" to cold approach, I'm sure I could, with a little practice, get females talking to me with my conversational skills. Right now, I'm not too sure.
 
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April_Infinite said:
Do you guys tend to have more success (as in better response from girl, as to just number of girls gotten) when you aren't even trying to get a girl, or do you perform better when you see a girl, desire her, and go after her?
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I do not really approach females but when I do things do not usually go well.I have to work really hard to get through to them.I get more results when I'm not expecting anything.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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That's what I thought... It seems when you least expect it, all of a sudden things turn golden. And then when you concentrate, things go south. It's annoying, because if I go after people, I have way more opportunities, though they all drop dead quickly, since I'm trying. Then I don't do anything at all, and I'll "accidentally" meet, and do well with one person, but that just starts one-itis, which ultimately leads to failure also.
 
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