I always want more

[WhitePimp]

Recently I've noticed a rather alarming behavior that I often act out. Whenever I start getting close to a girl, I immediately lose a degree of interest and start getting restless and wanting to find other girls. Now, normally that would be somewhat of a good thing. But because of this behavior I've never really been able to commit to someone for an extended period of time. It's always been "**** and flight" for me basically. I really want to try and get into a somewhat open relationship...still get to meet other people on the side but still have something steady going on.

The girl I'm with now is great. Great personality, cute, and willing to drive up an hour every other time to see me. But now that I've been "with" her, I feel like I want to give her up. I don't know why I feel this way, but it's almost like my brain refuses to accept the fact that I may just be getting into an LTR and will try anything to mess it up for me. Sounds weird, but it happens everytime and I want it to stop. I just want to know that I have the ability to go the extra step...or maybe I just havent found the right girl. Anyways, part of this is some venting, some advice requesting. Anyone experience something like this and have any good stories/advice?

 

[NeedToImprove]

i feel like that too, sometimes i want to get a gf so bad that i dont stop till i get one, but other times when i find one i quickly lose interest because a) maybe im not prepared for a relationship in a determined period of my life b) or the girl doesnt turn me on

 

[gimmeyofonenumba]

Ya I have the same thing as well, I call it emily ****enson syndrome. Its like you think having a LTR will be a great thing, hanging out with her at your place, just kicking back having fun,etc. Yet as you get to know her you completly loose interest and wanna find someone else.